Force yourself to have a positive outlook no matter your life situation

[WaveInTheOcean]

By always trying to view whatever 'bad thing' that happens to you as a potential for something positive, you actually directly align yourself with The Divine/God/Love.

For example: You lose your job.

You are naturally sad, but try to view it as a potential for new unexpected growth.

Same goes for losing your GF/BF: naturally you are sad, but again, try to see it in a positive light.

You can always do this. No matter what happens. Even if you get blind, lose your legs, your cock, arms, w/e. Turn it to something positive. ❤️???

Everything happens for a reason.

The reason is that The Universe/You wants 'you' to wake up to the infinitely intelligent, loving nature of IT/YOU (LOVE). Always.

Edited June 18, 2020 by WaveInTheOcean

[Esoteric]

Trying to turn things "positive" is actually very destructive. It sets you up for aversion to feeling "negative" emotions. Tragedy, sorrow and pain has a sharp beauty that you can fully immerse yourself in. It's much healthier to learn to do that than setting a goal that something "positive" will come from this "negative" situation.

[Espaim]

(Don't) Force yourself to have a positive (or negative) outlook no matter your life situation

[James123]

@WaveInTheOcean great post. When you appreciate everything that you have experienced, you become the experience itself  expectations, thinking and worrying makes us dirty. We are pure awareness. much love

[SoonHei]

Turn every situation into Heaven

[WaveInTheOcean]

2 hours ago, Esoteric said:

Trying to turn things "positive" is actually very destructive. It sets you up for aversion to feeling "negative" emotions. Tragedy, sorrow and pain has a sharp beauty that you can fully immerse yourself in. It's much healthier to learn to do that than setting a goal that something "positive" will come from this "negative" situation.

Perhaps.

i may have , through my life, been too much over in the overly rational distanced cleft in regards to my emotions. I think you have to combine "letting you feel what you feel for the beauty of it" with also trying to turn all events into something positive.
 

 

Edited June 18, 2020 by WaveInTheOcean

[integral]

Train yourself to be content with everything. 

[VeganAwake]

51 minutes ago, WaveInTheOcean said:

Perhaps.

i may have , through my life, been too much over in the overly rational distanced cleft in regards to my emotions. I think you have to combine "letting you feel what you feel for the beauty of it" with also trying to turn all events into something positive.
 

 

Yes and in a sense the letting yourself feel through the emotions becomes the positivity because the resistance to what IS has been loosened.

We can never know what the closing of one door and the opening of another will reveal ❤

Watch from 32:14 - 33:52

 

Edited June 18, 2020 by VeganAwake

[Nahm]

6 hours ago, WaveInTheOcean said:

By always trying to view whatever 'bad thing' that happens to you as a potential for something positive, you actually directly align yourself with The Divine/God/Love.

For example: You lose your job.

You are naturally sad, but try to view it as a potential for new unexpected growth.

Same goes for losing your GF/BF: naturally you are sad, but again, try to see it in a positive light.

You can always do this. No matter what happens. Even if you get blind, lose your legs, your cock, arms, w/e. Turn it to something positive. ❤️???

Everything happens for a reason.

The reason is that The Universe/You wants 'you' to wake up to the infinitely intelligent, loving nature of IT/YOU (LOVE). Always.

Deeply beautiful message there. The “problem” is that it’s true, no? Lol. The “problem” is that Truth is “too good to be true”. But it’s The Truth! 

[Aaron p]

I've found speaking and visualizing affirmation quotes and words to myself really helps me calm down if I'm ever freaking out. I just keep saying "it's cool, I'm fine, everything is fine, I'm alright it's all good, I'm fine I'm fine I'm fine" it really works after a bit of consciousness raising work done for a year or two

Edited June 18, 2020 by Aaron p

[Forestluv]

 

[VeganAwake]

Positive outlook at its best ❤

[wavydude]

12 hours ago, Nahm said:

Deeply beautiful message there. The “problem” is that it’s true, no? Lol. The “problem” is that Truth is “too good to be true”. But it’s The Truth! 

Don't you think that forcing positive outlook is kinda not true and not taking things for what they are ?

[Nahm]

@wavydude

What exactly do you think “things are”? 

[wavydude]

@wavydude

Not sure what you are asking but I mean that there are some messed up events happening from the perspective of self surviving human like emotional trauma, unfairness etc

[abrakamowse]

10 minutes ago, wavydude said:

from the perspective of self

That's one POV, true... from the POV of the ego- self (lowercase "self") most of the things are bad...

From the POV of the SELF (with caps) that's a diferrent story.

Edited June 19, 2020 by abrakamowse

[Nahm]

@wavydude

You are literally talking to yourself.

About yourself.

Convincing yourself. 

Creating yourself.

Truth is so spontaneous, so good - whatever you say and create right now - is always up to you, as there is only this now.

You are Being. Being this now. 

[wavydude]

@Nahm 

I don't think that answer my question but It does seem like a wise answer thanks 

[Nahm]

@wavydude

It’s all wavy dude. 
 

[zeroISinfinity]

59 minutes ago, Nahm said:

@wavydude

You are literally talking to yourself.

About yourself.

Convincing yourself. 

Creating yourself.

Truth is so spontaneous, so good - whatever you say and create right now - is always up to you, as there is only this now.

You are Being. Being this now. 

Oh boyo Suicidal depression once again. Thanks.