My self exploration journal 2

[Preety_India]

Today I learned an important lesson on the forum. 

And that lesson is how to love someone who hates you. 

The best answer is forgiveness. 

 

This world is a stage. You have a perfect opportunity to grow here. Either you choose to grow with hate or you choose to grow in love. The choice is always yours. 

I always chose to grow in love. 

That's why I'm where I'm today. 

I took on  so much in life only because I had so much love in my heart.. 

The lesson is that if I really and truly love people, I should just let them be themselves. And let them hate me if they want to. 

Because God always has a higher purpose. 

He chose me to love and not hate. Because he wanted do shield me from bad karma. He wanted me to be pure. 

He doesn't want certain hateful people to change because he wants them to see the mirror themselves. 

That's the way God works.

 

God always wanted to show the mirror to me because he always wanted me to change.. 

I remember someone who said something a few months ago and it went like this 

"when you hate someone, you are murdering them."

That's so true. 

If someone wants to murder me, I'll let them murder me. Because in some ways they will realize what they have done. 

I would love to show them that hate is not the answer but finally I think it's up to them to change themselves. 

You can't fix hate 

This is a sad realization of reality. 

 

They're not on the receiving end of hate and so they don't realize how hurtful hate is

The problem with hate is that initially it starts with dislike and prejudice and then slowly morphs into more hate and then morphs into radicalism

Eventually this radicalism takes the form of active racism and hate crime. 

Some people just learn the harder way. 

Hate is what caused Brenton Tarrant, an Australian national,  to kill  51 Muslim worshippers at mosques in Christchurch, New Zealand. One of the greatest hate crimes recorded in recent history. 

 

Hate spreads like a cancer throughout the brain suspending all logic and rationale and empathy and judgement. 

Hate makes you a destructive force. 

If you asked me which one is worse? 

Me hating someone 

Or 

Someone hating me 

The answer is "someone hating me." 

Because I would feel very ashamed if I were to hate someone. 

So someone hating is me better. 

So the lesson I learned today is.... 

Let the person hate you.... Because if you love them, you should allow them to hate you. 

You always love others even if they hate you. 

 

Edited July 4, 2020 by Preety_India

[Amit]

@Preety_India Perfect, I am very happy to see you realize the importance of love,  keep growing mate ❤️ ??

[Preety_India]

@Amit

Thanks 

 

[Amit]

@Preety_India you're welcome, I've changed my attitude a lot since the last time we met, thanks for calling out my bullshit. 

[Preety_India]

 

About the current political climate. 

I'm glad that people are waking up to all the right wing bullshit. 

You know...... 

I will say that logic and rationality, facts, free speech are completely irrelevant. 

Because if these three things are used to propel hate in society, then their value is irrelevant. 

What I've realized after seeing the left wing and the right wing politics is that the right wing has weaponized the elements of facts, logic and rationality, free speech to pedal their agenda for hate and division and identity politics. This is the higher truth. 

Those who take the bait of logic, truth, facts and free speech are succumbing to the lower truth. 

Remember that logic, truth, rationality and free speech are high quality assets. And they should retain their value. 

If you use freedom to kill someone then it is righteous to take your freedom away. 

Similarly when you use free speech to create hate, when your logic tells you that hate is okay, when you use facts to justify racism, then these things also automatically lose their value because they weren't used for the righteous purpose. 

They weren't used in good faith. This is the higher truth. 

The higher truth here is righteousness, the truth of all truths. 

 

 

 

When you are right in your actions, it doesn't matter even if you didn't use facts, logic, rationality, free speech or any other medium. Important is that you stayed righteous. 

True justice lies in righteousness. 

Not in logic. 

 

You cannot use logic to keep someone poor 

Righteousness means that a person deserves fairness no matter what. 

 

Logic is thrown out the window in front of righteousness. 

Whats the difference between rationality and righteousness? 

By the principle of rationality, your job will pay you $9 an hour. 

By the principle of righteousness, your job is not fair in paying you $9 an hour. You deserve more because you don't deserve to live in shit after sweating out for the whole day. 

This is how righteousness differs from rationality 

Righteousness is simply the higher truth. 

 

Left wing green stage politics is about righteousness. 

Whereas 

Right wing  blue stage politics is about rationality. 

And like Leo said in one of his videos, rationality can only go so far 

At some point you have to go Meta on everything. 

 

 

 

Edited July 4, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

Some people just Crack me up 

 

[Preety_India]

I really need a teepee now.. 

Like NOW 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

This forum is filled with some crackos. 

I'm done with this shit 

Like why am I even wasting my time trying to change the world. 

Let them think whatever they want. 

Not like they are cut from my cloth 

 

Talk to people who at least have an iota of decorum in them

 

This is some GTA level 6 insanity.

Like girl, gtfo from this pile lol. 

 

[wesyasz]

You are amazing and perfect. Just be you .

[Preety_India]

 

2 hours ago, wesyasz said:

You are amazing and perfect. Just be you .

Thank you for your kind words . 

[Preety_India]

 

I think any humane society will support 4 fundamental virtues 

Justice 

Truth 

Courage 

Righteousness 

I see these as the fundamental necessities of morality of a system

I cannot imagine a system thriving without these 4 virtues. 

 

[Preety_India]

 

4 divine virtues 

 

 

 

 

 

Truth 

 

 

Courage 

 

 

Justice 

 

 

Righteousness 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Pine Grove will be about certain mentalities that are toxic. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@Amit

I'm glad I was able to help. 

 

[Preety_India]

 

Certain qualities I want to focus on 

• Integrity 
• Purity 
• Morality 
• Decency 
• Friendliness 
• Emotional maturity 
• Politeness 
• Innocence 
• Beauty 
• Wholesome 
• Loving 
• Caring 
• Sacrifice 
• Empathy
• Intelligence
• Perception 
• Wisdom 
• Prudence 
• Wit 
• Serenity 
• Peaceful
• Logical 
• Organizing 
• Orderly 
• Truth
• Courage 
• Justice 
• Righteousness 
• Perseverance 
• Resilience 
• Honesty 
• Compassion 
• Loyalty 
• Companionship 
• Faith 
• Trust 
• Hope 
• Generosity 
• Helpful 
• Protective 
• Enduring 
• Strong 
• Determined
• Passionate 
• Positive 
• Visionary 
• Freedom 
• Decency 
• Humanity 
•  

Edited July 5, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

I will have a color code for these qualities. This is not SD. 

 

 

Nicholas qualities.. 

 

Justice 

Truth 

Courage 

Righteousness 

 

 

Fronshia  qualities

Purity 

Decency 

Innocence 

Authenticity 

Friendliness 

Politeness 

Emotional maturity 

 

Verdana  qualities 

 

Love 

Compassion

Empathy. 

Humanity 

Charity 

Generosity 

Helpful 

Protective. 

 

 

Poinsettia qualities 

Intelligence 

Wit 

Adaptability 

Orderly

Perception 

Prudence 

Organizing 

 

 

Gladiolus Qualities 

Calm 

Transcendence 

Wisdom 

Clarity 

Abundance 

Psychic qualities 

Aesthetic qualities 

Sexual qualities 

 Freedom. 

 

Burgundy  Qualities 

Perseverance 

Resilience 

Strength

Endurance 

Hope strong 

Determined 

Positive 

Visionary 

Enduring 

Positive 

Passionate. 

 

Godetia qualities

Companionship

Trust 

Integrity 

Honesty 

Faith 

Loyalty 

 

Calliandras qualities 

Sharp wit 

Manipulation 

Defensive 

Aggressive 

Alert 

Clever 

Sadistic 

 

 

 

 

Edited July 5, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

It's time to reflect 

I will need to change my style. 

To keep myself safe.. 

See the greater truth. 

 

 

Edited July 6, 2020 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

 

I need to focus on other stuff. 

Certain things are complete. 

[Preety_India]

 

 

A new chapter begins today 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

I love me some pearls