Paan

Why Am I Afraid?

3 posts in this topic

Ive been wanting to start my own business for a time now, I really have been dreaming about it. But when me and my two other partners actually is about to make it real by buying a place to have the business on...i hassitate. Im scared and I dont know if I want it, but I know for sure that if I dont do this I will regret it for the rest of my life . I dont know why im scared, if it is of all the work that has to be Done or the fact that if I go into this im stuck at this business. Im thinking thoughts like " what if I dont want this in the future". If I go deep I actually want this but im so unsure because of this odd feeling of beeing scared and unsure. Now its like im trying to hide from it, that I dont have the guts to fulfill my dream. Im scared its gonna take to much time of my life, after I saw Leos video on minimalizm it made me think. But on the other hand, if I dont start this business i will just go back to my old 9-5 job and go home watch some tv.

I dont know how to put it to words but maybe some of you Knows what im talking about or have been in this situation.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@Piotr I cant describe how much your word did to me right now, very well written. Thank you so much for reaching out! Im gonna save these words somewhere and look at it when im struggleing. Once again, thank you! PS, im gonna watch the movies you sent as well ;)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

@Paan Fear is an illusion. You have to really think about what you want to do with your life, what makes you happy, what makes you want to get out of bed every morning. For me starting a business was scary because I didn't know and still don't know everything I need to know to expand and be one of the best life coaches out there. But its all a learning process. I know I love helping people and I know that this is my purpose in life. 

Its now or never. 

If you don't feel like this business will befit you and your not passionate about it, then maybe its not for you. But if you see it as an opportunity to grow, learn more and wiling to do what it takes to try and make it work then go for it. We all get scared at some point in our life but the joy is we have a choice. Sometimes we have to sacrafice doing something we do not like for a while in order to eventually achieve our dream (E.g studying a Law degree to become a lawyer). In the end you know it will all pay off and be worth it if you work hard. Sometimes we just need to take that leap of faith, believe in ourselves more than believing in the process and believe in your business because it is an investment for your future. It may or may not work out but at least you tried and if you keep at it, who knows... life might surprise you in a good way.

 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now