Proof porn is bad for you

[Gili Trawangan]

39 minutes ago, Raze said:

Porn doesn't just give you a sexual release. It changes you, dulls your senses, and it's addictive. If something has a 30% chance of addicting you, that is serious. There are now hundreds of accounts of men who quit porn saying that it's changing their lives, they think clearer, have less anxiety and depression, and feel butterflies when a girl smiles at them. 

From that perspective I agree with you. 

[LfcCharlie4]

@Hello from Russia Porn actually inflates your sex drive, I’m pretty sure most guys that were jacking off 3-5 times a day, are not having sex that much, unless they don’t have a job or any other life lol

 

[LfcCharlie4]

@Raze This! 
 

Using quitting porn to develop yourself in all areas of life is the key, not just starting at a clock counting how long you’ve gone without it, if you’re a casual user, like once a week, it’s nowhere near as big a deal to someone watching it daily or multiple times a day. 
 

It’s also easy to rationalise as nobody’s arguing it doesn’t feel good. 

[Hello from Russia]

2 hours ago, LfcCharlie4 said:

@Hello from Russia Porn actually inflates your sex drive, I’m pretty sure most guys that were jacking off 3-5 times a day, are not having sex that much, unless they don’t have a job or any other life lol

 

So is having sex with your girlfriend, lol. If you cum 1-2 times, you don't want to have sex anymore

[SgtPepper]

The question you could ask yourself is, could you be doing something better with your time besides jerking off to porn?

In my experience, the answer is always yes.

Do you value acting or real intimate sexual reality?

I agree with OP. Porn is bad for you and your ability to build relationship with women (from a male's perspective). As I became more aware of the NoFap movement and read about their perspective, I slowly stopped. I pretty much see porn to be an ugly vice and full of deceit. It's also a toxic industry that takes advantage of people. so if you want all the baggage that comes with this vice to sit on your heart, then so be it. 

I don't use it anymore

Edited June 12, 2020 by SgtPepper

[Hello from Russia]

You guys judge all this from a position of not having sex with woman everyday. Of course it will be much better if you have sex with the girl 1 time a week and stop your masturbation practice.

Give it an experiment. Find a girlfriend, move in with her and fuck her brains out every day and cum 1-3\day. You'll quickly see it was not about porn that much as it was about too frequent ejaculation and too much stimulation of your testicles. That's what you actually need to lower to have more energy.

Edited June 12, 2020 by Hello from Russia

[LfcCharlie4]

@Hello from Russia I recently broke up with my GF about 6 weeks ago, and decided to quit porn then, as I knew it would be too easy to fall into, as I was living with her during Quarantine, been tough, but definitely worth it IMO. 

[Lyubov]

to be honest I await for many of you to come out of your inceldom or lackluster relationship lives and realize that porn was never your problem. although I don't want to discredit some of the problems that come along with unconscious porn consumption.

Edited June 13, 2020 by Lyubov

[Zigzag Idiot]

@Lyubov  I agree

What one fights and resists will only persist.

One proof though is if you get blisters on your pecker or if it "coughs" dust.

[AtheisticNonduality]

On 6/12/2020 at 6:03 AM, Raze said:

Porn doesn't just give you a sexual release. It changes you, dulls your senses, and it's addictive. If something has a 30% chance of addicting you, that is serious. There are now hundreds of accounts of men who quit porn saying that it's changing their lives, they think clearer, have less anxiety and depression, and feel butterflies when a girl smiles at them. 

I don't see how pictures and videos of people having sex are supposed to mess up the brain in any substantial fashion.

[AtheisticNonduality]

On 6/12/2020 at 2:06 PM, Hello from Russia said:

You guys judge all this from a position of not having sex with woman everyday. Of course it will be much better if you have sex with the girl 1 time a week and stop your masturbation practice.

Give it an experiment. Find a girlfriend, move in with her and fuck her brains out every day and cum 1-3\day. You'll quickly see it was not about porn that much as it was about too frequent ejaculation and too much stimulation of your testicles. That's what you actually need to lower to have more energy.

There is this thing known as horniness.

[Raze]

13 hours ago, AtheisticNonduality said:

I don't see how pictures and videos of people having sex are supposed to mess up the brain in any substantial fashion.

 

[AtheisticNonduality]

8 hours ago, Raze said:

 

Somebody that sits around and watches porn everyday most likely won't experience health benefits, so I agree there.

[Onemanwolfpac]

I know women get furious about it. Trad cons want censorship. I thought that it was nonsensical but I think it is not good. I was listening to a podcast and the dude said he was experiencing side effects during actual sex. He wasn't as entertained. He complained about going limp. The dopamine spikes are similar to social media as is the pathways setup in the brain. It will impede a person. 

I don't want censorship. I acknowledge that it is not good. Sadly, many married men engage because they are not getting it at home or will cheat. 

I don't go to the sites meaning,

1. I Must have sex, meaning actually chat girls, and engage. 

2. Imagination

3. Both. 

Porn is inaction. 

[Oliver Saavedra]

1 hour ago, Onemanwolfpac said:

Porn is inaction. 

Porn is fake action

It's like believing you are fit only by watching fitness videos

It's like believing you are wise only by watching actualized.org 

[zeroISinfinity]

How I use porns. As a tool.To improve my endurance. Sort of meditation. Ladies are greatful for that. 

Also bring ex's back when they "suffer" from "emotional instability" after break up with their new boyfriend. Guys are so naive. 

So what can I say. Don't jack off as sort of short pleasure. 

Jack off with intent lol. 

Edited June 19, 2020 by zeroISinfinity