Question and discussions for Guise who leads in a relationship with woman

[John Iverson]

1. I want to know how you guise lead? In a date or in a relationship?

open up a possibility for me to a greater perspective 

2. Especially in a situation where you think of a plan where your next date is, From the first date to the day you were able to win her heart until years and years have passed, how you were not able to run out of ideas of places ? and ideas for your girl? 

 

Edited June 2, 2020 by John Iverson

[Elton]

Coffee shops, beaches, movies, trekking, restaurants, malls ... Are few things you could do and each one of these can have several permutations and combinations.@John Iverson  

[JessiChell]

@John Iverson I'm not an expert. 

But I would say, find your passions and hobbies in life. You will meet women who have the same interests. That way you can work on similar goals as your relationship becomes long term. 

You don't need fancy ideas, money or anything like that. All women want is consistent effort and honesty. 

Make her a bath after work randomly, take out the trash without being asked, a massage randomly, ask her "how are you feeling" often, write her a sticky note saying you care about her, be enthusiastic to make her cum (even if you don't know what you're doing, its effort), do your own laundry every so often, and just listen to her. 

Make sure you have your own life and are not needy. 

That's it. Just value her. 

If you're passionate about a hobby, a woman who loves you, will learn your hobby and do it with you. 

 

[Hugo Oliveira]

Don't be stuck in too much rationality about it. What you are telling yourself is that you need to have absolute control of things in a mechanical way and that isn't true.

For sure you can think about it. Just don't get lost or limit yourself in this need for manipulation. Things will reveal themselves along the way. 

As you meet her, it becomes clear to you what is good for both in terms of activities. 

About places, I suggest two things:
1. Don't fuck the logistics and the good atmosphere for interaction.
2. If you go a bit outside of the box sometimes, you become interesting. Use your creativity and common sense to make this bet. No need to be spider-man here. Just get the notion that you can venture. (alternative concerts, nature, art galleries, romantic places...) 

 

[John Iverson]

6 hours ago, Hugo Oliveira said:

1. Don't fuck the logistics

Can you elaborate this.. and examples

[John Iverson]

9 hours ago, JessiChell said:

Make her a bath

What exactly is this? I'm the one that puts soap on her? Shampoo her? Lol

 

9 hours ago, JessiChell said:

If you're passionate about a hobby, a woman who loves you, will learn your hobby and do it with you

I am imagining how interesting If someday my future girl will connect with my hobbies. I 'm going to tease her with my future hobbies like astral projection and I'm going to have an adventure in reality , that kind of passion I always let her chase! For example HEY! Find me in the future! I will go there for a while you will not see me in a year, go find me,there is something i will discover there... hahaha

In a way, she's in my own reality, I'm going to give her magical experiences, tease her with all my energy to make her emotion up and down but intense

I want to exist that even my future son or daughter will find me And they have no clue where in reality they will chase me hahaha!! and the only clue they'll have for me if they will chase me while i'm gone for awhile is the story I have from the people i met in my journey haha!

But I am going to come and they will get excited when i am home this is my personality.. wooh!! 

Thank you for your response!!! Because of your response it unlocks my other vision to myself

Edited June 4, 2020 by John Iverson

[JessiChell]

8 hours ago, John Iverson said:

What exactly is this? I'm the one that puts soap on her? Shampoo her? Lol

@John Iverson hahahaha no, she's not a dog. Like, put water in a tub and put candles. That's it. 

Good luck with finding her!

p.s. Don't have children. 

[John Iverson]

1 hour ago, JessiChell said:

@John Iverson hahahaha no

1 hour ago, JessiChell said:

hahahaha no, she's not a dog

Hahahahahah 

 

1 hour ago, JessiChell said:

p.s. Don't have children. 

Yes!!! I am going to tie myself to that kind of responsibility when i get 40's maybe that time i still rocks!! Hehe

 

 

, she's not a dog. Like, put water in a tub and put candles. That's it. 

Good luck with finding her!

p.s. Don't have children. 

Oh! I'll put that on my to do list hehe

instead of candles full of snakes! Lizards!! And Crocs! Hahaha