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stopwow

first crush as an adult

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I had my first crush when I was almost 30 years old. So basically it seemed like I had loving feelings for someone I didn't know very well with minimal communication not involving a personal friendship. It went on for 2 years. At the moment of first crush, time seemed to slow way down, she glowed in white light, and it felt like we always knew each other. Is that usual the experience? She ended communication when I told her about it. That was the only time I cried over a woman.

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Sorry you had such a bad experience. But it does feel the way you are describing. You feel that person is special. You are enamored and you like everything about that person. When I met my ex, it felt like we already knew each other so I can relate to that aspect of a crush

 


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@Preety_India I'm just attempting to be humorous with this post. The 2 most painful words in the universe known to man: "Best wishes." That's worse than "Let's just be friends." LOL, haha.

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@stopwow  yeah, women also have similar experiences. 

Life is unfair for both. 

 

 

 


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On 29/05/2020 at 9:01 AM, stopwow said:

@Preety_India I'm just attempting to be humorous with this post. The 2 most painful words in the universe known to man: "Best wishes." That's worse than "Let's just be friends." LOL, haha.

That's life in a nutshell. Take your shot.

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On 29/05/2020 at 9:03 AM, Preety_India said:

@stopwow  yeah, women also have similar experiences. 

Life is unfair for both. 

 

 

 

That's how somebody creates a victim complex. Life just IS. 

Theres morons no doubt. Like the cop killing a man in handcuffs or the morons burning down the target and stealing TVs.

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@Onemanwolfpac  enough. 

Instead of commenting on people's comments, try answering the OPs question directly. Saves a lot of drama. 

 


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