Transactional relationship

[Nemo28]

 I was offered a nice sum of money to engage in transactioanl relationship with a girl from Latin America. In order for her to stay in europe she needs to prove that she is in a relationship with europian. I feel conflicted about this, since its not genuine and i might not know what i sign up for.. I mean the situation in Latin America is very bad and i kinda want to help her but also dont want to be trapped by this thing.  From my side there is no attraction. What are your thoughts on this? 

[Leo Gura]

Learn to say No to devilish machinations.

[Nemo28]

@Leo Gura Thats a good advice, cause i feel like im saying Yes too much in order to avoid disharmony. 

[Leo Gura]

34 minutes ago, Nemo28 said:

@Leo Gura Thats a good advice, cause i feel like im saying Yes too much in order to avoid disharmony. 

Yeah... devils will exploit such a weakness and drag you down to their level, entangling you in their schemes.

To be God-realized requires firmness, principle, and integrity. You can't let some ignorant devil gaslight you into falsehood. You must be strong enough to stand your ground and do what you know is in alignment with Truth, Love, and wisdom. Appeasing devils is not Love or wisdom.

[universe]

A nice sum of money can be 1.000usd or 1.000.000 or more usd.

Can you be in a relationship with another girl at the same time?

How long is this "contract"?

 

If you are afraid of disharmony you should look into that. Accept that disharmony is part of reality. Learn to go into tension. This is a masculine trait. At first it might be scary but after time you will love being in tension. There is nothing to fear. The less you fear the more willingly you will go into tension. Do body relaxation meditation. And pay attention to the body and its emotions during the day.