What does it take to get out of victim mentality entirely?

[Malken]

Besides desire.

[IJB063]

@Malken

Heres the secret

Stop seeing yourself as a victim

The world owes you nothing

[Osaid]

Ask yourself, who is responsible for the overall quality of your life?

[Malken]

@Osaid Me. But I enjoy lazying around.

[Malken]

@IJB063 I feel like one cause life seems to have so much pressure/hoops to hop through and idk how to deal with that.

[IJB063]

@Malken

You’ll deal with it as long as you’re alive

Just try not to see yourself as a victim in the meantime

Read some philosophy 

Look into Stoicism, Existentialism and some Eastern Philosophy 

Listen to this lecture

And start meditating, exercising and reading daily

It’ll get easier

All men die but not all men die whining

[IJB063]

The serenity prayer
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change what I can and the wisdom to know the difference”

Theres a recent post made here which links to your post @Malken if you’re interested it’s linked here

 

Edited May 24, 2020 by IJB063

[EternalForest]

If you want others to write your life story for you, being a victim is great! All you have to do is write about how everyone else screwed it up. Pretty simple, eh? 

No one can live your life for you. Go out and write your story now!

[Espaim]

Become conscious of how you are creating your own victim mindset. If you really become conscious of how you are doing it you won't be able to stay living that way.

[Verg0]

Take 100% resposibility for your life, create a compelling vision and commit 100% to it. 

Also look into the topics of how you can raise your confidence and love yourself unconditionally. 

Self-Love is key. 

 

[Free Mind]

Because homeostasis. You actually low key enjoy the victim mindset to a degree because it reinforces survival habits that keep you locked. Very interesting how it works. 

[Nahm]

99.9% of you patiently waits in meditation.