Is it worth it losing your virginity to a hooker?

[Javfly33]

Before Coronavirus I was determined to start doing pick up in a serious manner so I can get in the world of dating, relationships, sex. However so much confinement got me thinking. I think I am too lazy for pick up and honestly right now I am just interested in how the fuck sex feels like!!

I think there's a specific energy related with sex in the universe, and I am receiving messages of my body lately that I need to release/experiment this energy, I feel it's something I need to do. 

But I don't have any idea if sex with a prostitute will feel robotic and very mechanic. I don't know, will I have the "complete experience" as if I had sex normally? My biggest concern is if I will be able to experiment and release this energy, or it will be a waste of money and it will feel like watching porn (0 intimacy and very mechanic)?

 

[Preety_India]

 

Whats the point of losing virginity if you are too lazy to date anyway. 

Wouldn't it just be a one time experience? 

 

You don't need a prostitute for that anyway. You can try friends for benefits or casual sex relationships with anyone who is willing. There are many kinky websites for that stuff. 

With Prostitutes, there's risk of stds. 

 

Edited May 7, 2020 by Preety_India

[bejapuskas]

Sounds like you are just creating a story, but that's ok

[Roy]

Do not do it. You are cheating yourself out of an important authentic experience, literally.

Being able to attract someone and have sex with them is like a coming of age thing.

Have as much paid sex as you want after, but DO NOT let your first time be like that.

You will end up regretting it down the road.

Edited May 7, 2020 by Roy

[Spiral]

In my country girls aren’t into to guys that have payed for sex. Besides the first time one fucks it tends to pretty shitty, so let’s just say you won’t get much for your money.

Also corona can spread sexually. 

Edited May 8, 2020 by Spiral

[electroBeam]

1 hour ago, Spiral said:

In my country girls aren’t into to guys that have payed for sex.

In my country, guys don't openly let everyone know they've been with hookers

[bejapuskas]

2 hours ago, electroBeam said:

In my country, guys don't openly let everyone know they've been with hookers

 

[Shiva99]

13 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

I am just interested in how the fuck sex feels like!!

Stick your finger in your mouth, and touch the inside of your cheek. Now imagine that your finger is your weewee. That's it basically. 

 

13 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

I think there's a specific energy related with sex in the universe, and I am receiving messages of my body lately that I need to release/experiment this energy, I feel it's something I need to do. 

Of course there is. Releasing it by sex is also one of the stupidest things u can do. It's much better to use that energy and create, create, create. Use it to create the dream life that u want. It's the most powerfull energy there can be.

13 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

But I don't have any idea if sex with a prostitute will feel robotic and very mechanic. I don't know, will I have the "complete experience" as if I had sex normally? My biggest concern is if I will be able to experiment and release this energy, or it will be a waste of money and it will feel like watching porn (0 intimacy and very mechanic)?

Yes it is going to be robotic most likely, and almost all of them don't really want to have sex with you. They are in it for the money obviously. Also keep in mind that a lot of them are pressured into this industry, working under the thumb of some crazy ass pimp. It's a sad reality. You don't wanna do it trust me. Also, watching porn is basically the same. Date real girls, or better yet don't and keep the energy and use it towards bettering yourself.

 

Edited May 8, 2020 by Shiva99

[StarStruck]

The first time you will remember your whole life and will also probably set the tone of your sexual life. If you do it don't do it out of desperation but from a more sincere/clean position.

[Elton]

@Javfly33 ask yourself this question and you will know better than anyone else the answer to this question.

[assx95]

If it's a hooker who looks like Margot Robbie (Insert your favorite model/actress here) and is giving a friendly vibe but costs a lot of money, you would want to think about it. But yes, everyone is right in saying that attracting a woman all on your own would be more satisfying and would make you feel better. 

[Elton]

1 hour ago, Elton said:

@Javfly33 ask yourself this question and you will know better than anyone else the answer to this question.

@Javfly33 I forgot to mention, regardless of your decision alwaysalways use condoms, not using one is a strategic blunder. 

[Javfly33]

@Elton Of course lol

@assx95 I think too but I don't know when that's gonna happen because I just get motivated to move my ass only for very hot girls and those ones I would have to work a lot to be able to have sex with them and I just want to see how fucking feels like tbh

[Javfly33]

6 hours ago, Meta-Man said:

There’s more to sex than the physical sensations of penetrating a moist vagina.

There are two kinds of sex;

There is the empty, shallow one, that’s mostly physiologically oriented

and there is the passionate, affectionate one that can transcend separation, identity and physicality. One melts and ‘dies’ to eachother. At that point even orgasms become irrelevant. Pure spirit sex. 

Of course there is everything inbetween as well. I think transcendent sex is very very rare without some degree of awakening. Most people never experience that in their whole life. Even ones who are married for 50 years +. 

Yeap but for that one I would have to be with a girl that I have an emotional/spiritual connection right. Who knows when it's gonna happen meanwhile I want to have sex like mad lmao

[DIDego]

Give you maybe a little to bold alternative to make your choice.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12004280/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1    

I have spend some time watch bachelorette togheter with my girl friend, that is educated to social scientist and watch and learn and compare behaviours from programs around the globe.

Last time we was bold and watched something outside her comfort zone, it was actually really good reality show and not what it apears as in the begining.

It is about shallow people that have used alot of sex detached from emotions and the reality show is doing in a pretty good way to give them oportunity to work with their personal development.

Good luck and stay safe!  

 

[Roy]

9 hours ago, Meta-Man said:

I think transcendent sex is very very rare without some degree of awakening. Most people never experience that in their whole life. Even ones who are married for 50 years +. 

Hahahaha omg man stop you're gonna make me cry . It's no wonder communities like this can look so polarizing from the outside when you have people saying hilariously arrogant things like this.

It's like Leo the other day, "I can give a girl the best orgasm of her entire life through text messages."

suuuuuuuuuurrrreeeee lol

Edited May 9, 2020 by Roy

[Wisebaxter]

@Javfly33 You could have a nice experience, if you pay relatively good money for someone you're attracted to and who's nice. Prostitutes are human too and I'd imagine they enjoy sex. Open your mind to the possibility that you could do it and have the time of your life and not regret a thing. I'm not saying waiting and doing it with someone you haven't paid for, whoever that is, wouldn't have it's benefits, but I can definitely see the benefit of paying for a pro. 

Just a side note too, I think you're better off not doing pick up. Women can smell it on you when you're just after sex. Also, it's not a stress free life style, especially if you have a strong conscience. Better to get a good woman and start a family, then you'll have sex all the time and you'll be happier.  

Edited May 9, 2020 by Wisebaxter

[Ananta]

54 minutes ago, Meta-Man said:

By uninhibited I don’t mean licking and fisting assholes.

Jesus!!!! I don't think that was necessary... you've left this audience with quite a visual. ?

[Ananta]

4 minutes ago, Meta-Man said:

People are into some crazy shit.

What I just told you is nothing. That’s the fucked up part.

I understand, but let's leave that on pornhub. ?

[Ananta]

1 minute ago, Meta-Man said:

Sorry, I just had to make a point ??

Point taken ? (I was just making a point also!)

 

@Javfly33 I think you would regret your first sex experience being with a hooker. Especially, when you meet someone you really like and start talking about your sex experiences up to that point, which many ppl do. You might end up feeling bad about it.