Is it okay to visualise shelter, money and sex?

[Patrick_9931]

So I’m near the ending of the life purpose course and I’ve started the affirmation, contemplation and visualisation exercises.

The problem( or not) is that when I’m sitting and visualising stuff, in my mind comes for the 90% stuff like living in a big house in nature, having near me my hot girlfriend that's doing exercise, watching at my 6 figures bank account , having some threesomes in the house with my girlfriend and another girl that I know.

Beside that I also imagine being a meditation pro and having some really deep meditative states , having some deep connections with people, working on my life purpose and having a lot of succes in it.

My life purpose is studying personal development and helping others to use their potencial , I’m 19 years old 

Sorry for any grammar mistakes but I’m still learning English 

Thanks for all the answers <3

Edited May 3, 2020 by Patrick_9931

[Leo Gura]

It's okay. That's just the level of development that you are at right now.

As you get some of those things, you will outgrow them.

[Rasheed]

Why are you even asking it? Brother, you have to live your life,not anyone else. If you wanna just lay down and that's it, do that. Just make sure it's your decision, not mine or anyone else's. For me, it's best to make your own decisions. It's sucks, when you go and live life of other people's decisions. It's like playing soccer, and only thing you do is what your teammates tell you, that would be BS. Same applies to life. 

Edited May 3, 2020 by Rasheed

[AlphaAbundance]

@Rasheed Hell nah bro that is half valid - what someone wants to do may be a short-term / freudian type "id" desire aswell as someone might not know what is best for him. If someone is an ignorance --- and this applies to mostly everyone --- then it is might be best to follow the advice (with critical thinking) of the more advanced and qualified individuals.

@Patrick_9931 It does seem to be the case, that it is an option to follow your desires and if you find out that path is optimal. After which, you stay with it if it is best and also adjust course if it turns out to be empty / unfulfilling.

       In addition to knowing directly that this isn't the best path (if it turns out to not be the best), this way you get to follow your desires and eventually reach the optimal path.

Edited May 3, 2020 by AlphaAbundance

[Rasheed]

11 hours ago, AlphaAbundance said:

@Rasheed Hell nah bro that is half valid - what someone wants to do may be a short-term / freudian type "id" desire aswell as someone might not know what is best for him. If someone is an ignorance --- and this applies to mostly everyone --- then it is might be best to follow the advice (with critical thinking) of the more advanced and qualified individuals.

@Patrick_9931 It does seem to be the case, that it is an option to follow your desires and if you find out that path is optimal. After which, you stay with it if it is best and also adjust course if it turns out to be empty / unfulfilling.

       In addition to knowing directly that this isn't the best path (if it turns out to not be the best), this way you get to follow your desires and eventually reach the optimal path.

I don't agree. Ignorant people don't do what they want. They don't even have some sort of goal. They just follow the herd. Patrick is ain't stupid. Just looking at his question. He is visualising stuff. Ignorant people ain't visualise shit consciously. They don't do LP course and affirmations. That's why Patrick can make his own wise decision. And follow his heart. Best to make your own decision. Can't live life on someone else's rules, when you are conscious. That happens only on autopilot.

Edited May 4, 2020 by Rasheed