Posted May 9, 2020 26 minutes ago, electroBeam said: My God there are too many good men out there! They are everywhere! See how friendly this guy looks. He would show off his family pics. Great family guy right!! He murdered his wife and kids Christopher Coleman . Guy also went to church and was known to be a great guy. It's all a facade. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 @Annonymous It's a good question, it's quite close I would say, but women just don't seem to have that constant craving that men do, I can only speak from my experiences, even when I am not thinking of something erotic, it's still there, lurking in the back, it's a driving force in us men it seems. Women enjoy it for sure, but do they have that constant sense of lust that we seem to? Some of them do I am sure It's all down the person. I have an average sex drive, not too strong but still strong, I would say the average women is probably a little less than that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 54 minutes ago, Sambodhi said: Women are really much deeper need for sexuality & it seems to provide a deeper & more long-lasting kind of satisfaction than for men. YES! This is exactly what I realized. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 Without knowing a woman, you really can't reach anywhere. You will always want and strive to have your needs satisfied without thinking of her needs. It will be a toxic cycle of relationship and breakup. In the end, you'll be alone and have a life where you have temporary glimpses of short term interactions with women, you might get sex, but no lasting fulfillment, the woman will also be left without a partner because most men wouldn't fulfill her but just come to her for what they want out of her, over time this behavior from men will make her more vulnerable and guarded around men and she would be progressively reluctant to date men, even advising her daughters and granddaughters to be careful around men and not fall for the bait and lose themselves emotionally. This will create a rift between the genders and both will end up living lonely lives, the woman constantly being on her guard, the man constantly searching to fulfill the needs of companionship. It never ends well. A man can get sex any which way he wants. But his goal is to have a long lasting relationship and that won't be possible if he is reckless in his understanding of female needs. Most relationships are broken by women out of frustration of not having a man who understands them enough or simply doesn't care about their needs. Men get blinded by their needs so much that they forget that there's a woman who also has her own needs with him. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 Lots of jaded ladies here You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 Nothing makes a woman orgasm more then a Goodlooking face and body, it's instinctual. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 9, 2020 1 minute ago, WHO IS said: Nothing makes a woman orgasm more then a Goodlooking face and body, it's instinctual. You got that right. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 (edited) 4 hours ago, WHO IS said: Nothing makes a woman orgasm more then a Goodlooking face and body, it's instinctual. Ehm... No Not in my experience anyways My best experiences has been with men who are present. Like to be real for a second: the real female orgasm comes from being pursued. Looks has next to nothing to do with that. For real. Females are not focused on looks... thats the fallacy of the male projecting their own desires speaking Edited May 10, 2020 by Dwarniel ...But what if the opposite is true? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 (edited) On 5/8/2020 at 5:46 PM, RendHeaven said: "challenge accepted" hahahaha ? Like for real though. It's not that difficult to mimic some porn star. Edited May 10, 2020 by Dwarniel ...But what if the opposite is true? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 13 hours ago, Leo Gura said: I will shoot a recording that will make you cum. Assuming you are radically openminded. This is a cult now Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 6 hours ago, WHO IS said: Nothing makes a woman orgasm more then a Goodlooking face and body, it's instinctual. Bahahahaha... You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 @Cocolove Don't misquote me devil. I said exactly the opposite. You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 6 hours ago, WHO IS said: Nothing makes a woman orgasm more then a Goodlooking face and body, it's instinctual. You'd like to think so, how else are ya gonna maintain that big ego of yours if you can't make your dick feel special and important? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 Women do get attracted to a man's looks. This is a fact. However you wanna put it. And women who don't agree, they are just trying to play around with denial as they usually do. Women are not goddesses, they are humans, just another gender, just like men, they are prone to the same misgivings as men are. Yes of course I don't mean to say that women only go for looks, they do count other things like personality and connection as well. But let's not be so blind to say that women don't like looks or don't care about it. Now they don't care about it as much as men care about female appearance, that I agree.. But look around if you want to, how many females swoon over not so attractive males. Do a dating experiment if you like, both online and offline. The guy with good looks is sure to get higher chances of women saying yes to him Do a social experiment and see for yourselves. Send two men, one a hot guy and the other a not so attractive short overweight man of the same age into a room of women.. Most women would instantly try to flirt or desire to be wanted and flirted by the hot guy. They will all hover around him, even if not directly, because that's a no no to the Female Ego, but in their minds they cannot resist trying to get the attention of the hot guy. This is female nature. If one woman likes something, then other women follow suit, they also want the most popular thing. That's why all male pop singers, boy bands have all these cute handsome looking guys, you may or may not find them attractive, but of course they aren't short, pudgy, bald and overweight, they are all date-able guys. All the Hollywood hunks. When a man is surrounded by a crowd of women swooning over him, it's usually an attractive man. Women like to parade them around like trophies. Does this mean that women are shallow???? I didn't mean to imply that. Because women can want much more than looks but looks aren't off the list. If women never cared about looks as they would truly want the whole world to believe, they themselves wouldn't invest so much into looks themselves, the makeup and surgery industry wouldn't have been a billion dollar industry. Let's face it. If women didn't want looks, or didn't care, it's the unattractive men who would get the ladies first, whereas the attractive hot men would be sitting around lonely. Unattractive men would have no self esteem issues in approaching women then. Duh. Have you seen a bunch of teenage girls and even older women hug the classmate looking nerdy with glasses or have you seen them fainting over the hot guy with a nice face and body and a few tricks up his sleeve charming the women An attractive man's picture will get the highest hits on an online dating service. Of course, this doesn't mean that women can't let it go, or can't compromise with looks, they can and many do, there are a lot of women who don't care about looks, the degree to how much they care about looks varies from woman to woman, however in general, statistically speaking, looks of men are valued across a female population. Women like to deny a lot of things because they want their self to look presentable. It's their Diva Ego fighting back.. Women tend to be less honest then men. They would rather have a denial than face the truth. Women are less likely to acknowledge what men say about them and less likely to accept that they were wrong if they did wrong. Women come up with all sorts of defenses to protect their female ego, to the level that they don't even accept biology. They want it their way. Again this is female nature. A woman in a relationship wants the relationship to be her way or no way. She can keep denying it, just like women deny that they are jealous of other women, these are hardcore facts that you will see in recurrent patterns when you conduct social experiments. How many men end up with broken friendships And how many women have friendships that go sour because of competitiveness created by women themselves. Yet they blame men. Yes men objectify women.. But women are not innocent angels. They themselves objectify themselves to get attention or favoritism Most female denials are just denials to serve the female ego, because inside themselves, they want to control the status quo so desperately that they obfuscate the truth. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 To each his own I don't want to be demonized on my choices of men. Nothing wrong with whatever a woman wants.. Her brain, her vagina, her choice, her freedom. Every woman is different in her body and mind. Although we all share some similarities. My instincts are mine and I embrace them with my womanhood. I don't want to know what's right what's wrong as long as I'm open with myself. Nothing is inappropriate with whatever you want in dating. It's just a matter of preferences. I have my own preferences just like other women have their own. INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 @Preety_India no preety, world doesn't not revolve according to your choices sadly, you have take things in account according to circumstances. If you have to choose between a hot dumb vs ugly understanding boy, I hope you will go for the later, given you are on this forum. @Keyhole haha, you are my kinda girl. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 (edited) @Amit 18 minutes ago, Amit said: @Preety_India no preety, world doesn't not revolve according to your choices sadly, you have take things in account according to circumstances. If you have to choose between a hot dumb vs ugly understanding boy, I hope you will go for the later, given you are on this forum. @Keyhole haha, you are my kinda girl. You're automatically assuming that a hot guy is dumb???????????? I never said that the world revolves around my choices. I said I have full freedom to follow what i like without being made to feel upset or bad for it.. I said everyone has their own preferences. Its your shadow speaking that wants to label ugly with understanding and dumb with hot. I did not make such associations. A hot guy can also be intelligent and smart and wonderful. So do you want to indirectly imply that all beautiful girls are dumb??? Check all your confusions. I'm an adult. I know what to choose. I don't want any random hot guy. I look for everything in a man. Combined with looks. And nothing wrong with being honest with what you want in a partner If a man said that he wants a beautiful woman, would he be wrong? No... It's his preference and choice. Maybe in your heart you want a hot guy to be dumb so you can feel better about yourself. People don't come in boxes. So be careful with your assumptions. A man or woman can be good looking and also be insanely understanding kind and intelligent at the same time. And just because someone is unattractive, does not mean that they are understanding and pure hearted. Take the example of Leo himself. He is handsome, hot and good looking. Is he dumb? He is much more intelligent and loving and also hot guy looks going for him You are making your own arguments to serve your own ego. Beauty is an outward appearance. Inner beauty is beauty of the heart. I need both. Nothing wrong with wanting someone who is appealing Stop demonizing people who want good looking partners. Stop framing people for their dating choices. Stop judging a person's character for their dating preferences. Nobody is right or wrong. Nothing wrong with a man wanting a beautiful woman. Nothing wrong with a woman wanting a handsome man. It's only a skewed society that demonizes people for their natural instincts. Edited May 10, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 9 minutes ago, Preety_India said: . I said I have full freedom to follow what i like without being made to feel upset or bad for it.. Just as they have freedom of expressing their view points. Aren't you playing victim? 13 minutes ago, Preety_India said: look for everything in a man. Combined with looks. And nothing wrong with being honest with what you want in a partner Alas, you are looking for the perfect, it doesn't work. And no I am not saying hot means dumb, just meant making looks a criteria is superficial and low consciousness but anyway you are free to make your own choices. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Amit said: Just as they have freedom of expressing their view points. Aren't you playing victim? I never said that they don't have freedom of expressing their view points. But nobody has a right to demonize me for my choices. I don't call someone wrong or right for what they want. So they shouldn't call me wrong or right for what I want. Calling someone low conscious, superficial, and shallow is a way of judging someone's character. I don't need to be judged. I don't judge others. I give people their freedom to have their choice, Giving freedom to others is the greatest form of love. Edited May 10, 2020 by Preety_India INFJ-T,ptsd,BPD, autism, anger issues Cleared out ignore list today. .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted May 10, 2020 @Preety_India well maybe, you're getting offended just bcoz there is some truth in what they said. If I were you, I will thank them for showing me my own demons. You don't judge doesn't mean anything to me, I'll keep judging you. ?❤ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites