Are girls less horny than men?

[Dwarniel]

1 hour ago, electroBeam said:

That's a movie, she's an actor, ordinary women can't fake it like that.

LOL 

[electroBeam]

23 minutes ago, mandyjw said:

No one has ever seen the entirety of the earth or the moon, all 360 degrees at the same time. In a beginner art class you learn how to draw perfect circles and shade them to look like a sphere. The illusion is what makes it 3D. Both flat, 3D and spherical are concepts that don't exist in experience, they are ways of communicating and understanding experience afterwards. Are there better ways to communicate an experience than others? Are there deeper more thorough ways to explore something, and then be able to communicate even better after? Of course. But your communication through thought to another will never be the actuality... your shared united experience. 

Ultimately the earth isn't flat or round, its Nothing. Its not even an earth. Its not even a. its not even. its not. There's no point arguing whether its flat or round, because in reality there's no answer to that question, because its impossible to directly verify or observe that answer, because the assumptions the question relies on isn't there in the first place. 

but what you're not appreciating is, within the relative domain things don't happen based on your imagination. Just because relative questions can never be verified or observed, doesn't mean you can fill the gaps with whatever you want LOL. The fact that when you go into outer space and the earth resembles a curve moreso than a flat line (you can't just say ohh curve and flat line are made up so I'm going to say its a flat line, NO LOL) is important. And its not up to your imagination. That comes from understanding reality. You can say all you want that women are imaginary and therefore all orgasms are imaginary, but just like how you don't dictate whether you see a curve or flat line in outer space, you also don't dictate signs of pleasure of a woman. There's more to it than imagination, you can actually study what makes women orgasm and have a knowing of how it works. You'll never empirically verify whether a woman orgasm for real, but its also wrong to say that whether a woman orgasms or not is based on your beliefs or worldview. The truth is its somewhere inbetween. Woman orgasm is not entirely equal to your worldview. Trust me if I believe hard enough that women like small penises, its not going to change the signs (or the curve in outer space for that matter!) that a women gives about sex. LOL

Yes we are all living in parallel realities as Bashar says, but don't take that too much as dogma, we are all living in parallel realities, but at the exact same time we are all living on 1 earth! Don't forget the latter!

Don't forget, yes the world is formless, but that doesn't mean its not form! form = formlessness. There is a REAL difference between a line and a curve. 

Edited May 6, 2020 by electroBeam

[The observer]

You folks clearly have no clue how orgasms occur. Yes, women fake them regularly, mainly out of the desire of wanting to be in accordance with their men, but there are other reasons, or better put, deeper dynamics. When a real orgasm occurs, it's not only related to one factor. Sexuality, eroticism, and arousal are complex topics. Mental imagery has a lot to do with them. For example, if a woman finds Dwyane Johnson hot, that'll increase her chances of a real orgasm. If she does not, she can still have an orgasm, just not as much likely. Why did I pick Dwyane Johnson in particular? Because he has a lot of desired qualities from the feminine (also from the masculine) perspective. He's strong, masculine, funny, cheerful, passionate, confident, famous, friendly, rich, etc... Each one of these factors plays a certain role in the arousal process. It mostly happens unconsciously, but it will still be effective even if the woman is conscious of them. Basically, he's transcended survival to security, and that's the dream for a lot of women, if not all human beings. This transcendence is interpreted as a ground for prosperity and freedom, which is simply the good life. This activates certain mental patterns that include intense emotional security. This intense emotional security gets then transformed into love and connection. This love and and connection is what sky-rockets the chances of real orgasms. Still, without proper stimulation of the body and/or without proper hormonal levels, it's not likely going to happen. So, it's about a mixture of things, not just one thing. Sex is psychosomatic for both men and women. However, the ways satisfaction occurs differ, not only between men and women, but also between any two individuals. Sex is a very nuanced field. And any generalisation would be limiting. If you want success and satisfaction, you gotta stop making theses generalisations, and instead start shifting your focus to your relationship and how to make the most out of it.

Edited May 6, 2020 by The observer

[mandyjw]

@electroBeam I've laughed before and had people think I was crying, I've cried before and had people think I was laughing and plenty of times I've not known the difference myself in the experience of it. It's all just arbitrary. 

What is the point of generalizing about women OR men? Some women like big penises, some like little ones, some like average ones, some fake orgasms, some orgasm a lot, some don't orgasm. Some are horny cyclically, some all the time, some not at all, some are hornier after a certain age, some are less, some are going through emotional issues that shut them off from their sex drive, others are neurotically seek pleasure and validation from sex.

Who on EARTH cares what the overall average is? Isn't variety BEAUTIFUL? 

If a woman wants you to feel a sense of completion like you pleased her, she fakes an orgasm so that her own blockages aren't overthought by you, she's doing something out of love. Maybe she enjoys sex, and connection in a tantric sort of way but doesn't need to have an orgasm to prove it, but she knows it's important to you so she fakes rather than try to explain. If she never fakes with you and shows her displeasure with your performance, she's being honest with you out of love. There's nothing to fear, or diminish anyone in this situation. No one gets "credit" or "blame" for anything.

Everyone can just let it go. That's the entire purpose of an orgasm anyway. 

 

Edited May 6, 2020 by mandyjw

[RendHeaven]

On 5/6/2020 at 3:41 AM, Dwarniel said:

LOL 

"challenge accepted" hahahaha

[Leo Gura]

On 5/5/2020 at 2:45 PM, mandyjw said:

All you did was prove that no man has ever given a woman an orgasm. 

 

Sounds like denial and envy

You just haven't found the right man.

Ain't no woman faking it with me. You don't need to fake it when you got the real deal

On 5/5/2020 at 3:09 PM, Keyhole said:

@mandyjw @Leo Gura She got you there Leo, how do you know your ex wasn't lying?  Woman fake that stuff to make men feel better.
Then again, you do have a video on how to make a girl squirt.  However... Vegas call girls I would assume are usually more in touch with their bodies considering the work they do.

See above. Same goes for you

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Reminds me of my fave Drake song:

"She call me the referee 'cause I be so official
My shirt ain't got no stripes, but I can make your pussy whistle
Like the Andy Griffith theme song
And who told you to put them jeans on?
Double cup love, you the one I lean on
Feelin' for a fix, then you should really get your fiend on
Yeah, just know my condo is the crack spot
Every single show, she out there reppin' like a mascot
Get it from the back and make your fuckin' bra strap pop
All up in your slot 'til a nigga hit the jackpot"

He wrote that song about me 

[Bittu]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

He wrote that song about me 

Lul

[Leo Gura]

22 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

I dare you to write a message on here that would give all the women on this forum an orgasm.

Lol, that's not how it works.

[wordsforliving]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Sounds like denial and envy

You just haven't found the right man.

Ain't no woman faking it with me. You don't need to fake it when you got the real deal

This explains why I faked orgasms most of the time. The motive was to make the man feel better. 

Where are these real men?! Not so sure they exist.  @Leo Gura is surely an anomaly. I thought I'd found one of these real men but lo and behold I realized I had tried to dream a real one into existence!  

14 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

He wrote that song about me 

I dare you to write a message on here that would give all the women on this forum an orgasm.

@Keyhole  LOL! Great idea! Ok, I'm waiting... 

[wordsforliving]

3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Lol, that's not how it works.

Well darn. @Leo Gura then if only you could duplicate yourself into millions of copies to appear to all the love/sex starved women in the world. It's a serious problem that nobody addresses. 

[Leo Gura]

3 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

Why not?  What are the mechanics behind it?

A deep intimate connection must be built. This is not some cookie-cutter line.

[Hello from Russia]

Just become THIS women that is able to attract THAT man . Once you're yourself at THAT level, THESE men will come, trust me. It's all about YOU in the end. 

I will also claim that it works the same for men. You will either be able to attract this wild women pretty easy or you will be able to open up women to this level who are not at that level yet, but are capable of it, all about you.

Edited May 9, 2020 by Hello from Russia

[wordsforliving]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A deep intimate connection must be built. This is not some cookie-cutter line.

Therein lies the problem. Most men do not want to build the deep intimate connection. 

[electroBeam]

7 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

A deep intimate connection must be built. This is not some cookie-cutter line.

Lol. Then the orgasm isn't coming from the text message.

[electroBeam]

6 minutes ago, wordsforliving said:

Therein lies the problem. Most men do not want to build the deep intimate connection. 

Because men dont realise its important, like how women don't realise keeping in shape and having sex is important.

[wordsforliving]

3 minutes ago, Hello from Russia said:

Just become THIS women that is able to attract THAT man . Once you're yourself at THAT level, THESE men will come, trust me. It's all about YOU in the end. 

No, no I don't think these men are here on this planet.   I want to end this nightmare dream and go to the planet where these men will appear.  I'm pretty sure Leo is a Wanderer (as mentioned in The Law of One Material) and from another planet.  @Leo Gura is here from another planet to teach us what is possible. And getting a woman to orgasm in a text message is possible, I know this. 

[wordsforliving]

28 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

I hear this stuff all the time...  Become this - just be this.  Strive for this level.  Only then you will get what you desire.  (Which isn't an orgasm, by the way, I can do that myself if need be.)

Well, I'm not so sure about that.  I've been on that hamster wheel before, where I allowed myself and others to persuade me that if I just became this or that, that eventually I would find the connection that I was seeking.  Not only did I lose myself, but I lost time, energy, health and motivation.

Women were put on this planet to be cherished and adored.  We grow in this sort of light.  Women don't grow in the competitive light of needing to strive to a level to then please their men.  All of these broken, angry women that you see are the victims of man's incapability to see this.  They want the girl to be a certain way, to get to a certain point for them - and women can't survive in that kind of soil.

This sort of competitiveness not only damages women individually, but we then have to fight between other women - our own sisters, whom we form bonds often closer than a man and a woman can achieve.  Then we are left with nothing.

Oh this is all so true. Every word of it.  I tried to get the "man" I loved so dearly to meet me halfway or do at least something on his part to bring to the table for deep intimacy. He refused. Gave him the best book to show him the way and he threw it in the garbage instead. No interest. He only wanted his porn addiction, not a flesh and blood sex/love goddess.  

 

Edited May 9, 2020 by wordsforliving

[wordsforliving]

1 minute ago, Keyhole said:

That's so weird, isn't it? I have never been with a guy like this, but I have been hearing story after story from confused women on this very issue - and they are attractive, worth while girls - and the guy is more interested in a movie screen as opposed to real intimacy.  It is becoming an epidemic.  Just know that it is not you, men are becoming conditioned to porn in a really weird way.

It's bizarre isn't it?! I used to lament on the "Dead bedroom" on Reddit and so many high libido women like myself cried of the same thing - the men wanted porn and not the flesh and blood FIT and sexy woman. That's because porn rewires a male's brain to be adverse to a woman in the flesh. It completely short circuits deep and real intimacy. Oh yes it's an epidemic. There is no way a woman can do "enough" once a man's brain is rewired to no longer be with a flesh and blood woman. 

[electroBeam]

31 minutes ago, Keyhole said:

 and the guy is more interested in a movie screen as opposed to real intimacy.

You need to understand that there is a very real difference between feminine and masculine energy. Getting confused as to why men don't have the same feminine needs as you is really silly. I'm not criticising, but this is kindergarten level mistakes.

Of course guys are into movie scenes more than real intimacy, and if they aren't they have a mental disorder. Now I'm not being dysfunctional, I'm being honest. 

You think guys mean it when they get all romantic and lovely and cute and chick flickish? God no, they are doing that because they know if they don't, you're going to dump them. They only get deeply intimate with you to settle your intimacy needs, not because they actually like it LOL. If they did, they would love chick flicks instead of fight club and rambo. Hu? Why do they like rambo and not chick flicks? Duh...

Its a bit like women with sex. The average girl(I.E. Not horny and isn't terribly int sex) just has sex to keep the guy happy. Its not something that keeps them in the relationship. They are doing it because they know if they don't, they will get dumped.

emotional intimacy = sex and physical attraction for a man. You cut out sex, its equivelant to a guy cutting emotional intimacy off of a woman.

I know this because I'm a very atypical guy who has feminine cravings (40% emotional intimacy and 60% physical, where the average guy is like 5-10% emotional and 90-95% physical) but I got bullied bad for it in high school, unexpectedly so, because its not normal, its very weird. If I didn't have access to feminine energy I would never have known emotional intimacy was important - and most guys don't. Yeah they hear it on pickup channels that its what you gotta do, but they don't FEEL at the CORE why its important. They robotically do it to get laid.

If this was a guy convo it would go something like this: 

"fuck my balls bro that's fucked, isn't it? I have never been with a girl like this, but I have been hearing story after story from pissed off men on this very issue - and they are rich, awesome duded - and the girl is more interested in talking about bullshit all day then having amazing sex. Does this girl have any hormones at all? Any sexual attraction for this guy? Or is she using him for money.  It is becoming an epidemic.  Just know that it is not you, women are becoming conditioned to having low sex drives from the birth pill... it fucks up their hormones bad."

 

[wordsforliving]

14 minutes ago, electroBeam said:

You need to understand that there is a very real difference between feminine and masculine energy. Getting confused as to why men don't have the same feminine needs as you is really silly. I'm not criticising, but this is kindergarten level mistakes.

Of course guys are into movie scenes more than real intimacy, and if they aren't they have a mental disorder. Now I'm not being dysfunctional, I'm being honest. 

Consider thinking outside the box. There is so much more outside closely held stereotypes. Talking down to a woman or about feminine needs is within kindergarten level mistakes. Real masculine energy does not have that superiority complex. Very rare, but I found one real example of authentic and evolved masculine - Jon Butcher.