Are girls less horny than men?

[Preety_India]

5 minutes ago, MartinMaggio said:

Men have like 15x more testosterone. Of course we are hornier. Look at physiology 

Exactly 

[belen]

@Preety_India I wonder how you experience your horniness as a fem if i may ask,  you can write me a private message of course,  i also would like to know how others experienced 

Edited April 26, 2020 by belen

[hoodrow trillson]

Women are just as horny as men.  We are horny in different ways but the energy is the same.  The key difference is, they act on it when it's a person that they find physically attractive.  It's very simple, yet overlooked.  It seems shallow but it is biology, unfortunately; for the majority of men.

Saying women aren't as horny as men is just lying to yourself--because you do not get that reciprocation back.  I was blessed with being good-looking and trust me; the average women are always horny, just as much as men--unless they have a condition where their libido is compromised.  I also realized that women treat me differently and are super nice to me and I can get sex a million times "easier" in comparison to my friends and other men.  I did nothing internally, it was all external when I grew into my looks as I got older.  It takes a lot to fuck that up, unless you're purposely being a douchebag but counter-inuitively, that sometimes pulls in some women even harder.  It's almost paradoxical (!!!)  Though, that paradox is a very toxic and addicting road to go down for both women and men but some people enjoy it so I cannot judge.

The biology is written into your genes in this illusory life and that biology for men is displayed with our faces and height.  It's a tangible thing for women--it's just how it is.  To refute this is to be asleep to reality (akin to still believing there is an "I" ).  It's not necessarily that it's ripped guys that have it easy--it's a man with a good looking face.  Muscles, money, great personality, big dick, nice full hair and hairline, etc. are all just bonuses on top of the good substance that's already there (an attractive face, attractive to woman).

The reason women don't go to a "prostitute for sex" is because the majority of women (not all) can actually get sex quite easily.  It's just not their prerogative to fuck just ANY guy, he has to be cute to them at least.  They are the gatekeepers of primal raw reproduction--not all men can get through.  Men cannot force their way in through that gate (this is rape) so society has evolved to the point where it can be calm and transactional:  good career, nice personality, great with kids, nice house, etc.  to avoid any conflict (and to not return back to caveman times ).  But this type of relationship isn't as solid as raw sexual attraction between two people for example.  The transactional type of relationship is essentially a house of cards and that illusion shatters when one loses their job, gets sick, is working too much, etc.  

When people first meet; both genders know immediately if they'd sleep with one another within milliseconds--this has been proven in study!  It's biology, and biology drives us in this illusion of life, wether we like it or not.  

Just like other facets of life--it seems unfair but it is what it is.  Also, it's important to remember that there are outliers to this--just like with everything else.  Pointing out one or three different anecdotal examples refuting certain things isn't actually refuting anything.

PS:  Take some shrooms if you want to see the truth on this!

 

 

Edited April 26, 2020 by hoodrow trillson

[Leo Gura]

14 hours ago, Maximus said:

Um, this may sound stupid, but men struggle with getting sex because they don't go to places where women are looking for sex and then ask those women for sex. They be nice to women not looking for sex and then expect sex.

Also, ripped men don't struggle with getting sex

I was not talking about struggle with sex. I was talking about who has a higher desire to have sex on the drop of a dime. And that's men.

It's not in a woman's survival interest to be constantly horny on the drop of dime. She doesn't have that luxury. Her horniness is selective whereas a man's is not.

[Adam M]

@Dutch guy

4 minutes ago, Dutch guy said:

Sounds a lot like men from venus and women from mars. Havn't we thrown all that stuff away. It sounded nice but it were just rationalizations. Lets stay openminded Yes they do have that luxury. And a man that wants more than fastfood sex is selective as well.

From a biological perspective, men have a lot to gain from having as much sex as possible. Women have a lot to lose.

Yes, there can be exceptions. The exceptions are not the rule.

[Preety_India]

1 minute ago, Adam M said:

@Dutch guy

From a biological perspective, men have a lot to gain from having as much sex as possible. Women have a lot to lose.

Yes, there can be exceptions. The exceptions are not the rule.

That's the point I've been trying to make. 

 

 

[Girzo]

Although, mind over matter, isn't it?

Can't the access to contraception and awareness of it be influencing our behaviours?

[Preety_India]

 

 

 

5 hours ago, belen said:

@Preety_India I wonder how you experience your horniness as a fem if i may ask,  you can write me a private message of course,  i also would like to know how others experienced 

 

This is how I experience my  horniness. 

 

I feel very horny when I see a man I cannot resist. If he is the man I want, I'm going to have orgasms just looking at him and feeling his presence. Then I want to chase him down like a cheetah. I just wanna seduce him till he caves. 

(I feel super horny during my periods, well of course) 

My horniness is like fire. It needs a spark, till then it's dormant. But when the right guy comes along, I'm lit. 

I only get attracted to sexy men. Others I don't bother to look at. I don't care if people think I'm a whore or whatever. I'm my own. 

I go for looks and intelligence. Looks means both face and body (and hair on the head.) I don't go for tattoos or baldy or skinny. Nice athletic, muscular, my last boyfriend was a boxing champion. Also intelligence matters. He should be able to talk. I don't prefer the silent shy types. They don't excite me. 

 

I'm not going to have sex with any Tom, Dick and Harry. My body is too precious for that and I'm selective. My horniness is selective, only the man I am attracted to or no man. 

I'm well in control of my sexuality since puberty, just like my sexy mom. 

 

She got the best man and lived with him all her life and I was born, hehe 

 

[The observer]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I was not talking about struggle with sex. I was talking about who has a higher desire to have sex on the drop of a dime. And that's men.

It's not in a woman's survival interest to be constantly horny on the drop of dime. She doesn't have that luxury. Her horniness is selective whereas a man's is not.

Drop that cynicism Leo. Survival is not everything.

[Joel3102]

Have a look at the porn industry. Half the internet is porn basically and it’s nearly all aimed towards men. Guys will spending tuns of money towards to get premium access to girls on onlyfans, cam websites, pornhub etc. That should be evidence enough that guys are way more obsessed than females 

[The observer]

Guys, look at the porn industry. Most pornstars are females. Ergo, women are more horny.

?

[egoeimai]

Just because you are a man, one of 7 billion people,  doesn't mean that you know how other people feel and claiming it with such certainty. Also you're not a woman to see how it feels to be a woman. "ovulating blah blah" lol have you ever ovulated to see how horny or not!? No. So why? Lol

Anyways. It's not wise to say  "it is what I say, end of story" 

[egoeimai]

On 4/26/2020 at 8:18 AM, GodDesireOnlyLove said:

 

about right now, he has probably taken some some pop corn and is in delight of all our bs battle rattle.

 

That's so "guru" loool

@Preety_India I don't get your point. You go here and there quoting people and saying "exactly". Have you ever had any female in your surroundings that watches porn like a "man" does or gets horny except when on pms? Maybe no? Consider this. 

 

[PenguinPablo]

@Leo Gura around the right guy, women are certainly more horny

[The observer]

@egoeimai You get it! ???

[Preety_India]

45 minutes ago, egoeimai said:

That's so "guru" loool

@Preety_India I don't get your point. You go here and there quoting people and saying "exactly". Have you ever had any female in your surroundings that watches porn like a "man" does or gets horny except when on pms? Maybe no? Consider this. 

 

Of course I didn't include that detail. I've also mentioned elsewhere that I had a porn addiction for some time but now I tried to keep it to the minimum because it kinda takes away the interest from real sex for me. Also the way I perceive men gets affected by porn.

Also I do get horny not just during my periods but also on other days as well. But I'm so busy that and I have done it so much for so long that I don't do it as much as I used to when in my teens and at 21/22. Now I'm kinda used to it. 

I've girl friends who watch porn with me. I used to watch porn even with my ex boyfriends. 

I just didn't include the whole details because I thought people gonna judge me a bit much. 

[Spinoza]

Men need sex more than women, it has to do with evolution

Statistics show that men masturbate more than women

Men will take almost all opportunities to have sex, while women are selectives they don't rush, men a lot of time they can't stop the temptation 

[Preety_India]

 

A woman is selective when it comes to her horniness. She is not going to feel the same way around every guy. 

She can have some degree of control on her sexual desire whether it's orgasm or masturbation in general. 

However a man has less control on his ejaculation because his experience of horniness is way above the level that a woman experiences.. 

Men can feel horny all day long.. Of course women can experience multiple orgasms but they feel this way only when they are feeling sufficiently aroused and a lot depends on their hormonal state at the point of time

Men don't need this. They can easily get horny at any day during the year

We never use the term premature ejaculation for women because women need foreplay and constant stimulation to reach orgasms. Whereas men can easily ejaculate once they are aroused. Some men have to have deep control and constant practice to avoid a premature ejaculation and to keep going till the woman experiences her climax. 

Women do prostitution and porn mainly for the financial reason. Not because they want to dish out sex to all men. 

Women don't pay for sex. Because a lot of men will offer themselves if they wanted sex with them. They can easily get it for free, why?.. Because men are too horny to wait for money. Does this mean that women go out seeking a man just for sex. No.. They seek the right guy only.. They wait for the right man. Because women have a much greater control on their sexuality than men.

Whereas men have to pay for sex, even manipulate women to get sex. Because men feel very horny because there is no woman around to match his desire unless she is in a relationship with him. If he has a girlfriend then no problem. But without a girlfriend, he will need to pay to get sex. That already tells you that women make money on sex whereas men lose money for sex. Shows who needs it more. 

Men consider it a privilege when they get sex, because they don't get it easily, even perfect guys have to woo the woman in different ways till she gives in. She is not going to sleep with him right away even if he is perfect. Whereas women don't see sex as a privilege because they know very well that if they wanted it, they can get it for free like room service whenever wherever, some man is always more than happy to serve her. 

Also look at rape statistics. Most victims are women. Of course men are also victims of rape, but a lot of these rapes are again committed by other homosexual men, few by women. These statistics again prove that men find it difficult to keep it in the pants and have to find a way to get sex somehow. 

If women were horny all the time then men wouldn't have a problem in getting a woman's consent for sex. She would be more than ready. 

 

Now when are women horny? To the level comparable to men

When they are going through puberty 

When they are feeling horny on any occasion depending on her mood (not all the time) 

When they are on their period 

When they get aroused by masturbation example vibrator or by porn. 

When they are around a sexually attractive male that they perceive as an ideal partner or the right guy. 

 

During such situations, you can't really measure who is more horny. Both men and women are equally horny maybe women feel hornier than the guy. 

But in general, men have a greater need for sex than women. The number of women who feel extremely horny, to the point of a pathological problem is always lower than the number of men who experience the same condition. 

 

Men and women are not equal when it comes to feeling levels of horniness and the number of times or frequency of feeling horny and the accompanying overall sexual needs.. Men need it more than women. 

Also for women there are curves during her whole lifetime that dictate her horniness. Its very seasonal. They can feel maximum horniness during puberty, when they are in their active reproductive ages, when they attain some maturity like in their 30s but it doesn't stay that way forever. Once past their prime, and especially after having kids, their sexual intensity begins to subsequently decline as they approach menopause, they may have erratic sexual desires during this time, but after a certain point, their need for sex gradually tapers off. 

Yet for men the desire for sex remains viable for a lifetime. They may experience physical difficulties with sex like movements or arousal issues but it doesn't dampen their sexual needs. They still want it even in their old ages. Hence we don't see a lot of couples where the women are in their 80s and roaming around with a young man, however there are plenty of examples of men who are in their 70s and 90s and have a young girl as their wife. 

Because for men, the sexual needs are much higher and stronger than women. 

For women  a lot of sexual desires will depend very much on her stage in the female reproductive lifetime cycle. It's usually at the peak at the middle of it when she is still able to get pregnant but as her chances of pregnancy reduce with age, her sexual desires also take a fall. 

For men, sex is both biological and psychological whereas for women, sex is primarily biological, the psychological aspect comes secondary. 

 

 

Edited April 27, 2020 by Preety_India

[belen]

@Preety_India thank you  for sharing I loved the way you described it,I could tell, that guy turns you on, I also like the song. Is true that women are more selective on who they get turn on and is more easy for them to explore their sexuality when they are and feel in a safe environment.

I know some sexual workers do that do work also because they like it, which in a way is positive and less violent since on their condition where able to make that decision, unlike other and take power on that, and yes ofc the porn industry is mainly male dominated and  has absolutely nothing for women to watch, there are some cool sex positive porns made by women that are respectful, giving care to their actors and in general been more healthy, and giving us as women an option to watch.

I wonder if is also a problem of demand, I personally find it hard to find someone in real life that I could really like, I get more horny about the fantasies I make in my head then in reality, which makes me feel a bit superficial ... but well the more i grow up i find other things more important then others. 

am starting to think if is positive to be less horny then you can focus on other things hahah, I guess the bigger problem for me was to put men and women and compare them, we experience our sexuality so different, we don't get turn on by watching a dick, we get turn on by i don't know buying cucumbers on the supermarket hahah 

I think my intention is that women can allow themselves to be sexual in a more positive way and that it is their decision to explore it, I personally find it hard to identify me with my biology not because am against it but because i don't like to be define by it. I have a lot of trans women friends and sometimes I feel gender  and biology is really an illusion and  plays no role when it comes to the inner self.

[Preety_India]

@belen  true. 

Agree