If you would be 15, what would you do?

[Thewritersunion]

Me, reading this while being 15: ✨

[Hello from Russia]

@Thewritersunion

3 minutes ago, Thewritersunion said:

Me, reading this while being 15: ✨

Yeah. I wish what I've done throughout my 20-22 (23) years I would done at 15-18. Life would be so much better and I would have way less suffering in retrospect

[Thewritersunion]

@Hello from Russia I started actualized around 13 lol. I found it like 9 months into my self-improvement journey. 
 

Now it’s been like 3-4 Years, but I stopped counting. 

[Hello from Russia]

Just now, Thewritersunion said:

@Hello from Russia I started actualized around 13 lol. I found it like 9 months into my self-improvement journey. 
 

Now it’s been like 3-4 Years, but I stopped counting. 

@Thewritersunion Shit, stop making me jealous

[Thewritersunion]

@Hello from Russia >:)

[Hello from Russia]

Just now, Thewritersunion said:

@Hello from Russia >:)

@Thewritersunion @ShardMare I am curious, guys. I am assuming (big assumption here) that your parents are not into that stuff that much. How would you feel if you had parents who would spoonfeed you from your toddler years with similar content as Leo's? And you'd have parents, who are hugely into these things. Do you think it'd be amazing for you?

[Thewritersunion]

@Hello from Russia this stuff is not something you can just spoon feed someone. It must happen naturally. 
 

Tho 4 me I’d probably take it in right away. My first memory was me thinking that I’m thinking about something (which was in of itself a question.)

[ShardMare]

@Hello from Russia Thanks man! I thought a little bit about this thing and its awakening. I've always wanted to dig deeper into philosophy and spirituality etc. but see i HAVE to start with basic things like mastering money, diet, relationships and these kinds of stuff because it will f*ck me up later if i dont do these.@Thewritersunion Nice! I hope u doing well too!@Hello from Russia Yes, my parents dont even know that im doing this stuff incase if they would know they would shake my arms while im doing a shamanic breathing like: "Please dont do this stuff, please stop right now!" Lol.   I think if a parent start doing things with their kids early like in toddler years they can do everything they want. But if the kid f.e. 12 already programmed etc.  it would be hard. Of course if the parents hugely into these things they can get the child into this stuff even if the kid doesnt want it first time

[Bando]

@ShardMare If im being honest I wouldn't be taking spirituality as serious as you are at this age.

Without proper integration of "lower stages" like making money, dating, sexuality, making quality friends, building a strong work ethic, learning how to learn properly, understanding you emotions, your spirituality will become naive and you could possibly become a zen devil. As a 15 year old you have so much karma to burn and its not easy practicing spirituality in high school when your surrounding yourself with such low conscious people 24/7  

If you keep mediating and contemplating you will have a mystical experience but it won't mean shit if you can't make friends or socialize or even make your own money. I would say not to focus on enlightenment or anything like that but build strong foundation of mediating and becoming more aware of your mind-body connection.

Also buy life purpose course take your $250 you were going to spend on a game console or clothes and just buy the dam course this will literally save you years, even decades. You probably won't understand everything but your perspective on what you do for a living will change for better, good luck!

[Thewritersunion]

Wait there are other 15 year olds on here ? 

[ShardMare]

@Bando of course, i wont do spirituality and any kind of these stuff right now but its just far more interesting than money, dating, friends...

[susanyzm]

Making books my friend to build an independent thinking mind. I was very lonely and reclusive in my teenage years. Relationships scared me. I wish I had a spiritual garden that I could go to all by myself. 

[Michal__]

Continue what you are doing and start chasing women/learn pickup. Especially if you quit porn/masturbation. You are not a monk, sex is one of your basic needs.

Edited September 12, 2020 by Michal__

[Ibgdrgnxxv]

Nothing. I've tried everything I wanna do when I was fifteen. And successfully so. 

[Hello from Russia]

On 9/12/2020 at 1:44 PM, Michal__ said:

Continue what you are doing and start chasing women/learn pickup. Especially if you quit porn/masturbation. You are not a monk, sex is one of your basic needs.

I think chasing women and pickup is a huge waste of time at 15s years old. Most people at that age will have a self-esteem issues and ashamed sexuality, you can't even have sex here. So high probability it will be a hollow effort and your time/attention is better invested somewhere else. I'd wait until something like 19-21 to get started with this when you have more care-free girls around that are not attached to their parents/little girl identity and can have sex with you at your place (which you'll be able to get if you do everything right). Then you can really have some fun and burn the karma very efficiently

Edited September 14, 2020 by Hello from Russia

[bejapuskas]

9 hours ago, dflores321 said:

@ShardMare I'd tell mytelf to stay focused on my personal development. It's easy to get stuck in the high school world of trying to be cool and joining circles that aren't truly your friends. 

This seems corny to be the kid who wants to be cool, but you'd be surprised how many people do this, adults still do this. 

Tackle all the material/social aspects of personal development so by the time you enter your 20s, you have most of that stuff handled. 

I second this, only talk to the people you are interested in and dream big. You can email psychedelic researchers, TEDx talkers, different youtubers that you find cool, just listing a few examples, but they will usually reply. You can use your age as a means to manipulate them into thinking that you are a poor child and they should help you   

[ShardMare]

@susanyzm thank you, i actually want to start writing something not a book, maybe some poems.

@Michal__ i would waste a lot of time, energy. 

@Ibgdrgnxxv thats great bro

@dinone I cant really understand what u mean, maybe u talking about ur son. Just try to catch him up with material stuff, probably show him a book how to get more friends or get laid. 

@dflores321 i'll easily stay on this path. This is the only thing that interests me. 

@bejapuskas

18 hours ago, bejapuskas said:

You can email psychedelic researchers, TEDx talkers, different youtubers that you find cool, just listing a few examples, but they will usually reply. 

Great idea! They really reply back?

 

[bejapuskas]

@ShardMare  Yes, sometimes after a long time, sometimes the next day. 

[Slaughter]

I'd start a YouTube channel with my playthroughs of every time I ever played a video game. I'd be rich by now that's for sure! Then I'd invest in a house that supports other YouTubers to keep me going as I entered my 20s.

[zeroISinfinity]

Hang out with friends. 

Jerk off in bathroom. 

Watch movies and porns. 

Listen music. 

Avoid reading literature I have to and read only recensions. Reading all sorts of sport, car and adult magazines. 

Play soccer, basketball,swim etc

Try to figure out how to get rid of acnes. 

Wondering when will I get facial hair finally, later hate it because I have to shave. 

Play video games. 

And so on and so on. 

Nah I would be mini Ken Wilber I guess. 

 

 

 

Edited September 17, 2020 by zeroISinfinity