The Christian method helped in alleviating Aurora's personal issues.

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She decided to give herself away to God to join in union with God. Daughter of heaven and one with the holy spirit and also Aurora.

Identity is trinitarian we are all like Jesus so that is what it means to be a Christian. 

My whole life I've been trying to achieve a good relationship with family and so forth.

All suffering is caused by desire and egoic identificatin. 

Ego is identity defined by confinement to a grounded sense of self.

True identity is growndless and ever evolving. It is God Spirit Body. 

Spirit=mind, intellect. Body=form.

The personality is a particular arrangement of form.

It is aesthetic. 

What type of relationship do you want with others? What kind of clothes do you like?  Music taste?

The collection of these materials and the way you chose to make the bodily form sound and attitude 

Limiting them to a finite rigid set like a law is the cause of suffering.

Simply let go of every desire. Letting go is effortless and it does not mean you reject what is. You expand your like to anything potentially.

You realize your potential to like everything.

You are like everything and nothing and both neither all none... Your nature and my nature, our nature is infinite.

There is imaged sounds and sensations occurring in awareness and shaped by the mind.

Simply let go of resisting your dislikes and distates and disinterests.

These things exist whether the ego likes it or not.

And it is temporary either way.

Temporality is reality.