What Is Going On With Me?

[jes]

I come across something wonderful , one of friend shared his problem with me , he normally shares ,but I only give him some relief and encouragement , but while he was sharing his problem with me today , i felt it and i felt so deeper that ,I come across a solution for him ? what is this going on with me , I was laughing at myself that i am stuck in my own problems ,but i found a solution for him ? what is going on here ???? I could see clear picture for him , and advice him with my best interest and intention ? 

someone tell me what is this ? 

Edited June 23, 2016 by jes

[Andre]

My guess is you are female... Women are intuitively wired to feel what others feel. Why? women carry and give birth to a child who cannot speak and say whats going on when something is wrong, for that reason women have gained the ability to sense on a highly accurate level what others are feeling and what their intentions are. When a friend of you cries you would probably feel what he is feeling and cry with him whereas men wont cry, men will be thinking about what can we do to solve this problem. for example if my friend cries about his girlfriend who dumped him I would help him get her back or I would go out and find tons of new women to meet him. 

[Mal]

@jes

Well, when you begin to understand your own emotions you begin to understand everybody elses.  You are developing your emotional intelligence and using projection in a healthy way to understand another person 

 

Edited June 23, 2016 by Mal

[jes]

8 minutes ago, Andre said:

 

My guess is you are female

 

yes I am female ,

2 minutes ago, Mal said:

emotional intelligence

true  

 

I also wanna share one more thing while i was solving his problem ,i untie the knot of my own too ,an answer of question I was looking for  

[Mal]

Just now, jes said:

I also wanna share one more thing while i was solving his problem ,i untie the knot of my own too ,an answer of question I was looking for  

This is why we are all here on one level.  When I see somebody else's problem it's because I found a part of me that resonates.  It's easier to project our problem outwards and then re-integrate it while reading it back.  I use this site like a journal to work on myself

[jes]

4 minutes ago, Mal said:

we are all here on one level.

deja vu  you know what i mean hahahaha

[cetus]

@jes You can see his problem from a more detached place than you can see you own problems. It's a clearer view of what's happing from the outside that's not tainted by personal emotion.

[jes]

1 minute ago, cetus56 said:

@jes You can see his problem from a more detached place than you can see you own problems. It's a clearer view of what's happing from the outside that's not tainted by personal emotion.

beautiful and thank you 

[Mal]

@jes OK, check this out.  And this might sound a bit woo-woo, but believe me I am not one for New Age stuff, but I've been having the vague insight that we actually manifest certain situations in order to deal with them.

I'm not sure how much of this is my imagination or actual real experience, but I do actually get the sense I'm manifesting my own world.

How does this resonate?

[jes]

@Mal hmmmm