We do we know about sex and relationships?

[The Don]

Hello, folks!

Who knows what sex is?

Who knows what "relationships" mean?

Have you ever contemplated these terms and tried to understand what they really are?

We talk about sex and relationships without even knowing at a deep level what they are.

We have sex because we feel like it but we don't really understand what it is. We just think about having sex without having an insight into it.

I have a colleague at work; she's hitting on me all the time. Maybe she wants something from me, I don't know. Why is she doing this? Does she understand what a relationship really is?

Why aren't people questioning these concepts?

As I'm contemplating these terms, I find them bizarre.

Am I the only one here who feels like this?

[egoeimai]

It is getting weird if you question it. So people are afraid to question basic knowledge because they might find things that they don't wanna hear. 

[Peo]

I'm a virgin and i dont watch porn. I barely know what sex is and how it works. Its hard to question these things when i have never experience them before.

I dont even know what being in a relationship is like and what it even is.

[universe]

Well people dont understand much. Life goes on. Obviously you dont need to understand something in order to want or enjoy it. There is also never a way to know something 100%. Because all you are doing is constructing mental models about it, those are never as delicate and vast as reality itself.

For me personally, an emotional intimate relationship consists of two people who are loving, compassionate and interested in/with each other. There is an empathic exchange of attention which leads to a feeling of wellness and harmony.

[hamedsf]

well put!

that's the signs of the nature of your conscious curiosity and questioning everything! 

and when I ponder about sex, I usually think about the kissing part and sticking tongue to eachother! 

even there has been a situation, when everyone was busy eating food and thinking about the stuff in their head, and I was deeply wondering why do we put things in a hole and we push it downwards? ( i mean eating with mouth and gulping down process! 

everything could turn to strangeness once we question! strange mixed with the mystified beauty! 

 

Edited April 3, 2020 by hamedsf