When Others Do Not Tolerate My Existence

[jes]

this is one of thing I faced in my early childhood and very recent i felt ,some people cannot tolerate me as existence ?

[Mal]

Explore how that feels. Until you're done 

 

Edited June 23, 2016 by Mal

[jes]

How can i explore it , ? when its the situation or people are doing it ? I am just aware of fact they cannot tolerate me 

[Mal]

Well, how do you feel about that?

I mean, there is not much to learn except listen carefully to your own inner voice.  

Another way to approach it is you can look at life as it is now.  How are you responding to situations and people now? 

Sometimes becoming aware of the obvious pattern in the "here and now" gives us insight into the past. 

Think of the triggers in your life.  The things that make you upset. These can illuminate the past.  Then once you have insight you can deal with the past in "the present moment". If you can rest in the present moment you can discern what is the past in you and how different it is to your actual experience. 

 

[Mal]

@jes

It doesn't matter what they are doing. 

What matters is your response. 

Look at your response. How do you feel when they reject you?

This will be the symptom manifesting itself. 

Underneath that is your authentic self.  How you feel. 

I would like to spell it out for you, but it's better if you come to an understanding by yourself. 

Again, how is it that you feel bad around those who reject you?

 

Edited June 23, 2016 by Mal

[jes]

29 minutes ago, Mal said:

Think of the triggers in your life.  The things that make you upset. These can illuminate the past.  Then once you have insight you can deal with the past in "the present moment". If you can rest in the present moment you can discern what is the past in you and how different it is to your actual experience.

thanks for this 

22 minutes ago, Mal said:

Again, how is it that you feel bad around those who reject you?

right thank you