Beware, most of therapists are trapped in the materialism paradigm

[Nahm]

Are you listening, or looking at the woman in the red dress?

[Javfly33]

1 hour ago, Nahm said:

Are you listening, or looking at the woman in the red dress?

Mhhh...I guess both? 

[Nahm]

2 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

Mhhh...I guess both? 

Beautiful. ??

[SOUL]

You could have pointed out that humans are a social animal that relies on building healthy relationships with the group so is 'love' based interactions but modern society has alienated us from our natural behaviors and explains why there are so many that need therapy to cope with the suffering.

If your therapist doesn't understand this simple materialist explanation of that obvious current dynamic then maybe they aren't the proper therapist for you. You should also refrain from calling a disagreement an 'argument' because words can be a powerful influence on how the mind frames events.