How does sexual attraction work when you are one with everything or no I?

[Llight]

I am assuming if i had any meaningful integration on any level, of truths like everything is one or there is no self, or everything is a illusion(famous from diamond sutra) then it would follow that it would affect my sexual attraction. Whatever it is that we find attractive in another person is definitely affected by the conscious concept of separation and identity, even if we take gay people. This would be a pretty safe bet or self test to measure your progress in the spiritual work, because if I or any other person saw no difference or separation than we would have no attraction unless you like yourself a lot, this would include sexual repulsion for example straight person towards another straight person, all in all it would be neutral in an meaningful integration. I think this is the most reasonable achievement one can expect in a spiritual path, it's not like you are materializing a object. If on the other hand your sexual attraction is just the same then before you had a more normal perspective on reality like for example materialism, what would that make of materialism if what it taught you stayed on a higher paradigm. What was the most close to "oneness" experience about this for you?

[Litaken]

No matter if you become conscious of what you really are, you still got a point of view now, which is a part that has been split from oneness. This split will attract it's opposite. I can confirm the attraction stays  You just don't differentiate between sex and masturbation too much  See even if there is only you you have infinite ways to play with yourself  In fact I couldn't imagine anything more exciting that being with someone who also knows that we are one. Isn't love and sex about that? Two separate merging into one? Coincidence?  Like how would you phrase the truest man woman love? That you are so in love you become one.

Edited February 23, 2020 by Litaken

[Nahm]

Sexual attraction is the opposite of thinking.