30 something comes with harsh reality by better bachelor (this isn't crocodile tears)

[Preety_India]

4 minutes ago, Meetjoeblack said:

Do you approach guys? SrS? 

What do you mean? What's SrS? 

I have never approached a guy. I'd rather a guy approach me.. Is that odd? I thought it was not ladylike to approach a guy. Would gross me out. Not sure how this is taken. 

 

[Preety_India]

6 minutes ago, Meetjoeblack said:

Serious question or rhetorical +? 

You realize sex requires more than one person right? 

I obviously realize that. You aren't getting my point. My point is women want more than sex. But if you come across a woman who wants only sex, not sure how to put it, but to each his own. I believe in wholesome relationships that involve sex, romance, commitment, loyalty, emotional bonding. Maybe it's alien to you but for me it's natural to want a more long lasting wholesome relationship that leads to marriage eventually. Yes it can look like a waste of time to you, but like I said to each his own, don't take this as shaming. 

 

[Applegarden]

@Meetjoeblack ok you didn't get my point. The argument maybe ir maybe not doesn't support your argument more. Its 50/50, and if you really tought that, your answer would be different, because you might aswell come agnostic to the paradigm you express so much. As far as your paradigm or sexual stratregy - i care very little about that and i am not here to evaluate it or shame you for it.

[Haloman]

@Meetjoeblack  Alpha male strategies (AMS) advocates to stay on your purpose, not to go to clubs to approach and wait for choosing signals wherever you are, and only then approach. In other words, to chase money not women.

What do you think about that? Because i think that if most of guys today spent majority of their life time in front of a computer, then that isn't the best strategy.

[Emerald]

On 2/18/2020 at 5:14 PM, Meetjoeblack said:

Today, my prefer could be summed up by the DiCaprio effect (18-25). No apologies! 

Well, that's a shame. It seems I'm about 5 years too old for you. That sucks because I was really hoping... 

No. Never mind. Too painful. I don't make the cut. 

 

[Ananta]

4 hours ago, Emerald said:

No. Never mind. Too painful. I don't make the cut. 

Lol?

[Spiral]

In Sweden when you get married you together with your partner choose the terms and conditions of the marriage. I assume this applies to the US also. Does it not?

[ElenaO]

To be honest, I don't see what's the problem with being over 30 and not being married / having a relationship. After all, it's your choice. There's a reason you never got married in your twenties. There was probably something more important then in your life. 
I thought the video was silly, together with the comments.
I mean, relationships are just a part of your life, there's so much more to it than just being married, having a relationship. I feel it's actually cool that you are single and have time to do other things, grow yourself. 

[Arcangelo]

22 hours ago, Spiral said:

In Sweden when you get married you together with your partner choose the terms and conditions of the marriage. I assume this applies to the US also. Does it not?

Yeah I have heard that in some countries you can marry someone for 7 years and then you can renew the contract. It's prolly better that way.

Getting Married is like going to the casino (not smart), you know you are gambling with bad odds (not smart) but you don't care and you go anyway (not smart) and spend your time and money. Nobody knows if you are gonna win (stay married), not even you, but one thing is for sure on the long term you are gonna loose (chances are you are gonna get divorced).

Be smart don't go to the casino

Odds are at 53% against you right now.

 

 

Arc

[Preety_India]

1 hour ago, Arcangelo said:

Yeah I have heard that in some countries you can marry someone for 7 years and then you can renew the contract. It's prolly better that way.

Getting Married is like going to the casino (not smart), you know you are gambling with bad odds (not smart) but you don't care and you go anyway (not smart) and spend your time and money. Nobody knows if you are gonna win (stay married), not even you, but one thing is for sure on the long term you are gonna loose (chances are you are gonna get divorced).

Be smart don't go to the casino

Odds are at 53% against you right now.

 

 

Arc

You should get married to an Asian. Then getting married will be like going to Bermuda Triangle.