Can i sue someone for gaslighting?

[28 cm unbuffed]

So - the situation is this:  there is this girl, I was seeing for a year or so. She was saying to me things like "I only have sex out of love" and that she didn't love her boyfriend and she was with him for 2 years without sex. And that was a lie, I even caught them once, but I was so fucking brainwashed, that I didn't know what's true anymore. 

There was also a gossip about her, that she is having sex for money. And I think, it was her ex who said that about her. And I'm pretty sure it's true.

So - she gaslighted me and him, but he is still in love with that bitch and that's why he keeps that as a secret. And that's really the only thing that is stopping me from going to a court with all of that - because I think, she is having sex with him, just to keep the secret alive. 

The most fucked up thing about all of that is that she fell in love with me at one moment and she wanted me to fight her ex, saying "i don't feel anything to any of you, you two solve it, I don't give a fuck". And I almost believed that, I was so fucking desperate and brainwashed, that I almost followed that sadistic bitch's lead. 

 

On a soul level, higher consciousness level, that's how it was - she was in love with me and her soul wanted me to let her free from her own psychopathy. Her soul wanted me to fight him, so he could tell everyone about who she really is and to let herself free from sex addiction. I knew all of that, but I don't love her and yeah, that was egotistic from me, but I couldn't know for sure, if I could just beat the truth out of that guy, he could just laugh at me and hide the facts. 

What is more - on a ego level, she just fucked other dude. On a soul level - she broke my heart with that (I woke up from a dream when she has orgasm with this other dude) and she integrated my shadow - I was afraid of women, because I'm a sensitive guy, and subcionciously I was afraid of getting hurt, heartbroken. And now I can see every women desire me, they can sense that of me. That incident opened my solar plexus chakra and started my dark night of the soul event. And spiritual awakening event after. So - I'm really grateful for all of that and I know, she did all of that out of love for me (on a soul level ofc).

 

But still - come back to earth for a moment. What should I do about all of that? Is it worth the effort (going to a court)? I have to talk to a therapist and find out if that's even possible to sue someone for thing like that, but I thought, I'll ask here too. 

Any suggestions? What should I do?

 

 

Edited February 4, 2020 by 28 cm unbuffed

[28 cm unbuffed]

Yeah, I got treated with gaslighting, ghosting, who knows what else. She was a psychopath. 

Yeah, I have to trust karma here and let go, thanks.

[ajasatya]

On 03/02/2020 at 10:17 PM, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Any suggestions? What should I do?

I'd just move on. There's no reason to engage in people's conflicts.