How to stop homosexuality?

[Javfly33]

by the way , why you have to put yourself a label such as gay, bisexual, heterosexual or whatever? Just try to do sexuality as conscious as possible and don´t waste energy and focus on worrying about it. Duh. 

[Yimpa]

Read the Bible.

[Schizophonia]

Accept it.

19 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Read the Bible.

lol

[Emerald]

On 1/20/2020 at 3:22 AM, Buba said:

I am from Middle East.

It has been 10 days I try to accept myself the way I am, but I cant. I really cant love myself unconditionally. I really cant accept the fact that I may engage in passive sex.

My whole life I believed I am only into girls. This passive thing is a shock. I always dreamed marrying a girl. 

It is so unfair. I dont want to be passive. Dont I have a right? 

Do any of you have these passive gay feelings? It is so rare. I am so unlucky.

Cant I just observe the feelings and ignore them and not develop them? Will it hinder the healing?

It's definitely not rare. But what I would say is that, (given that you live in the Middle East where most cultures are traditional) that it's actually quite fortunate that you're attracted to women as well as men.

That means that you'll be able to have a female romantic partner and won't come across in a way that might be stigmatized.

The main thing is to come to accept yourself and not to worry too much about your attractions. It's not that rare... probably 10%-20% of men you know also have the same thing going on. It's just that they may hide it to avoid social stigma.

And I'm bisexual myself... so I am more attracted to men and tend to have more romantic attractions towards men... but I also have sexual attraction to some women. 

[ZenSwift]

You need to feed your mind more direct experience of having sex with men to give you the clarity you need. That Clarity/bombardment of the truth of Direct experience will help massively. Literally surrender to what you are drawn to to the point where it's fully seamlessly integrated into your worldview and people can fuck off if they don't agree with it. 

 

It definetly takes a pair of nuts to go through with it, but it's liberating. And it's probably the most manly thing you can do TBH.

 

This fear probably comes from your perceived survival situation. Survival of your identity, survival of you being a good person, survival of how you're seen in your relationships with other people, etc. If you change the environment completely, notice how that may change how you think about this whole thing. Imagine if you traveled to the most hippie, loving, pro LGBT place on the planet where also nobody knew who you were, so you had a fresh start. 

 

 

Another important thing to note, counterintuitively, you might actually get straighter if you have sex with a couple of men. Because you lack the direct experience to make sure. But you fear the possible outcomes of the experiment, so you just hold yourself back in your paralysis of fear. 

 

Literally in the end you may find out that you are straighter than you thought, but in order to get to that clarity you need to first be able to fully admit and love the idea that you may be gay.

 

And honestly fuck the labels, they carry so much additional unneeded meaning and misunderstanding, just go "fuck it we ball" and follow what the hell you are drawn to. 

Edited March 31 by ZenSwift

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

On 1/19/2020 at 10:06 AM, Buba said:

I have always been attracted only to women. Now because of psychoanalysis I started to release repressed gayness. It is awful. I feel attracted to men as well. You will say homosexuality is normal. Yes it is.  But I dont want to be attracted to men. The whole my life was constructed on brotherhood. I enjoy it. Being gay destroys my life.

Please, tell me any method which will keep me only straight. I know it sounds absurd, everybody says it is impossible to stop homosexuality. But I still have hope.

May be some kind of vizualizations or affirmations or other things or medication may help.

I'm bisexual. Only occurs with certain people. I only watch straight porn though. Accept that aspect of yourself instead of pressing something so silly.