High consciousness reources in healthy sexuality?

[bonesurfer]

Hey all,

 

If this belongs somewhere else, please forgive me. This is not related to the post about relationships, although I'm aware there may be some overlap. I am looking for high consciousness resources on healthy sexuality, the sexality and relationship forums seem a little... mid tier? I just got back from retreat and it had occurred that I don't know what a healthy sexuality looks like. I've been watching porn since I was pretty young, and grew up in a fundamentalist religion. So, I grew up with a lot of conflicting opinions on these sorts of things as I imagine most have. I've read the classics: David Dieda, NoFap, guides in BDSM, Mantak Chia, The Bible. What's out there that relates authentic sexuality for somebody looking more to connect with their selves and their partners? In other words, I'm looking to combine sexuality with Being. Thanks in advance for the replies.

[bonesurfer]

I'll put together a list of books that I have found that look promising, but full disclosure: I have never read these, thus I cannot recommend them.

 

Sex Matters by OSHO

 

[Damien]

Existing thread in the relationship subforum that you might have overlooked.

[Jj13]

Integral Relationships: A Manual for Men by Martin Ucik.

I found it quite useful. It builds on Ken Wilber's integral model (basically spiral dynamics) and applies it to masculine and feminine polarities, along with another model that describes psychosexual development of males and females which I find amazing.

[okulele]

check this out:

 

[BenJackson]

If there are good books about healthy sex, please recommend them.
This is an open topic, I think it is necessary to learn more.