I'll never watch porn again

[Chew211]

Been porn free since December 2018. But it took many attempts to quit to make it stick-- don't let failure discourage you.

I'm also starting to get success with women, so as of November 2019, I've been fap free. 

However quitting porn is only supplemental. The things that will make the difference is the actions you take in order to challenge your limiting beliefs, and the shattering and reconstitution of your worldview as you gain new experiences. 

[28 cm unbuffed]

@assx95

Do not listen to Leo, he is somehow deluded about porn and probably sex too, he is making some kind of a twisted philosophy, to excuse himself sitting and jerking off in front of a computer screen lol. 

No fap is fucking great - it's like your main powersource as a human, it's like main pillar of development for me, it's something like healthy diet, exercising, meditation, reading, strongly agree with @Shin here. 

 

[Shin]

38 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

@assx95

Do not listen to Leo, he is somehow deluded about porn and probably sex too, he is making some kind of a twisted philosophy, to excuse himself sitting and jerking off in front of a computer screen lol. 

No fap is fucking great - it's like your main powersource as a human, it's like main pillar of development for me, it's something like healthy diet, exercising, meditation, reading, strongly agree with @Shin here. 

 

It's his last devilish addiction until he becomes full buddha.

The ego will do everything to resist

[assx95]

@Chew211

3 hours ago, Chew211 said:

Been porn free since December 2018. But it took many attempts to quit to make it stick-- don't let failure discourage you.

I'm also starting to get success with women, so as of November 2019, I've been fap free. 

However quitting porn is only supplemental. The things that will make the difference is the actions you take in order to challenge your limiting beliefs, and the shattering and reconstitution of your worldview as you gain new experiences. 

That's inspiring to hear. Kudos man. 

[assx95]

2 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Do not listen to Leo, he is somehow deluded about porn and probably sex too, he is making some kind of a twisted philosophy, to excuse himself sitting and jerking off in front of a computer screen lol. 

No fap is fucking great - it's like your main powersource as a human, it's like main pillar of development for me, it's something like healthy diet, exercising, meditation, reading, strongly agree with @Shin here. 

Yeah man, I'm going to do my own thing. This is going to be life-transforming. 

[28 cm unbuffed]

7 minutes ago, assx95 said:

This is going to be life-transforming. 

Dude, you have no fucking idea

IM SO HYPED TOO MAN !!! WOOOOO

Edited January 14, 2020 by 28 cm unbuffed

[assx95]

21 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Dude, you have no fucking idea

IM SO HYPED TOO MAN !!! WOOOOO

[capriciousduck]

@Serotoninluv #2 OMG. Great thinking!

[Rasheed]

Why are you consuming pornography, when they are abundance of inspiring content on internet, which will transforn your entire life. 

Do a Test:

• Watch inspiring law of attraction video, one day.
• Watch porn, another day.
• Compare, how you feel afterwards. 
• Make your own decision. 

Same rule applies to news; tv; movies; everything basically. 

What you watch, you become...

I wrote this to help you, no judgement and devilry here...Hope it helps.

Edited January 14, 2020 by Rasheed

[Shiva99]

I'm trying to do the same for a long time now. First few days and up to a week/month are not too hard. After this phase my extreme horniness basically becomes the main focus of my day, and i just can't stop thinking about it at that point. This is why i keep failing. Not sure how to fix it.

It's kinda funny tho, cuz sometimes i get into these weeks of falling back into full fapping mode, only to come back and realize i'm rationalizing a serious addiction by telling myself it's not so bad. Disgusting.

Edited January 14, 2020 by Shiva99

[28 cm unbuffed]

@Shiva99

This force is made to create.

You can use it to create life, with sex, to create art, to create your body with exercising, you can choose whatever the fuck you want.

Use it or it will use you.

[Ananta]

10 hours ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

Dude, you have no fucking idea

IM SO HYPED TOO MAN !!! WOOOOO

Hehe, never thought I'd see men so excited to not masturbate anymore

 

I personally don't think masturbation in moderation is a big deal. Just my 2 cents.

 

@Serotoninluv Great post.

 

[Shin]

17 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

Hehe, never thought I'd see men so excited to not masturbate anymore

 

I personally don't think masturbation in moderation is a big deal. Just my 2 cents.

 

@Serotoninluv Great post.

 

Imagine that when you have an orgasm you are tired for a day, sometimes more (with less drive to do anything, even the things you like).

Now imagine that the current level of energy you have can at least be tripled on the long run by not orgasming.

That's pretty much it.

[Ananta]

@Shin hmm, interesting. Even if you just do it every other day? That's in moderation to me.

[Bill W]

So if people associate a male orgasm with some kind of wasted life force and loss of inner energy what do the no fappers do if they are in a relationship with someone that involves sex? Or if your partner faps you to orgasm during foreplay? Is that forbidden?

[Shin]

1 minute ago, Bill W said:

So if people associate a male orgasm with some kind of wasted life force and loss of inner energy what do the no fappers do if they are in a relationship with someone that involves sex? Or if your partner faps you to orgasm during foreplay? Is that forbidden?

You can learn to have orgasms without ejaculating as a man.

 

14 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

@Shin hmm, interesting. Even if you just do it every other day? That's in moderation to me.

There is plateaus or energy level at 7 dayish and again after that, so it doesn't make much sense to do it often.

It's like eating junk food, it feels good on the moment, but you know you're going to feel like shit for the rest of the day.

[Leo Gura]

7 hours ago, Shiva99 said:

i'm rationalizing a serious addiction by telling myself it's not so bad. Disgusting.

Your craving for sex isn't transcended simply by withholding from sex.

Denial of your sex drive only doubles your problem by adding on an additional layer of guilt and self-hatred.

The sex drive is not an addiction in the same way smoking is. The sex drive is still there even if you stop. It's more similar to hunger. It's also not unhealthy, like hunger, unless you take it overboard. The sperm your body generates is going to leave your body regardless, so you certainly aren't "saving it".

[Florian]

I think the one thing about NoFap is that you don't release so much dopamine anymore and so you have more motivation, but I'm not an expert.

[Joel3102]

I feel like trash after porn. Nothing feels worse than the lack of motivation you feel after a 3 hour porn binge...

[Meetjoeblack]

19 hours ago, Chew211 said:

Been porn free since December 2018. But it took many attempts to quit to make it stick-- don't let failure discourage you.

I'm also starting to get success with women, so as of November 2019, I've been fap free. 

However quitting porn is only supplemental. The things that will make the difference is the actions you take in order to challenge your limiting beliefs, and the shattering and reconstitution of your worldview as you gain new experiences. 

How did you get out? Since puberty, been fapping. I have broken some records lol. I use to think trad cucks were annoying bitching about it. As i have gotten older, i have to agree with Molyneux and some of the data put forward. Its not good for people. Tomassi describes it as infinite untethered sexual access. 

I don't think censorship or banning it is a ideal solution. I want to exercise better control. Not even no fap. Just not using porn. I have noticed its timely. I can only imagine the reaction in the brain during porn.