Judgement Vs Knowing The Dysfunction

[jes]

To relinquish judgment does not mean that you do not recognize dysfunction and unconsciousness when you see it. It means "being the knowing" rather than being judged . 

this is very powerful line i read from a book " power of now" 

I want to have an practical example , and how to implement this, because i wanna learn it, I dont want to judge at the same time i wanna aware of dysfunction going on , someone help me here 

[LiakosN]

As E. Tolle suggests, by judging, spiritually speaking, you say i.e "You are stupid" to someone! And then you act him as if he is stupid. You are facing your won label every time you meet that person and you are trapped in your own mind.

By not judging you can say: "I recognize that this behavior of this person is stupid".

NEVER say to someone :You are.... stupid/awful/lazy etc.

Instead say to her/him: "Your behavior is.... " or better " This behavior is such and such..... " ..