Best Dating Teacher

[Meetjoeblack]

On 05/01/2020 at 10:32 AM, Kalki Avatar said:

You might waste alot of time seeing endless videos about pickup on youtube. 

First, you need to learn about women's psyche and their biology. How they think and to what they are attratcted. The red queen is a good book. Also, red pill knowledge can help. 

Second, you need to work on your inner game. Which means to get rid of as many insecurities and false beliefs you have about women, sex and relationships. You can be alpha and still suck with women because of old beliefs pulling you back. This has been my biggest struggle. I would get girls but still I felt something preventing me from flowing with them. Check out leo's video about contemplation, comprehension has many degree s and what is actuality.

Third, you need to work on your personality by creating new habits and beliefs. This needs to be mantained constantly as you are not real but a constant process. Women are attratcted to anything that serve their survival, strength. And masculinity which polarizes their feminine energy. With out these two you can attract them on a personal level but sexual chemistry wont occur. You can become alpha by practicing mantras, visualizing or using a vision board, doing physiological incantations, taking constant action, challenging yourself, exercising, listening to masculine music, surrounding your self with strong masculine men and putting yourself out there to many experiences, which can develop a strong will and courage. 

The inner game process is the most important and it might take a period of 6 months to 1 year to see good results. 

Lastly, learning game. After understanding women and having developed your Attraction level, you can now choose a style, appearance and techniques to make the fish bite the trap and begin the process of experiencing your world. 

Books to read:

-The red queen

-The evolution of desire

-The way of superior man

-The power of now (there needs to be a balance between truth and illusion in order to play well). 

-The mystery method 

-The game

Extras:

-Almost any book from Carlos xuma. 

-Atomic Attraction by christopher canwell

-Models 

-Law of Attraction. You need to understand how your mind works and how to percieve other ppls frequencies for better social skills and understanding of them. Your focus creates your frame work and by time your going onto creating that reality. So be aware of your focus always, practice shifting it to another direction for when need it and how to control your emotional states. Having control of your frame is the key for persuasion and seduction. If you learn how to have an unshakable frame while having still eye contact you can get away with almost anything you want and even dominate others. I recommend to only use Psychological dominance over ppl who want to dominate you as self defense (unless you want to lower your self control (conciousness) and build some negative karma). Even if your physically weak and a strong rich men wants to fck with you, if you hold a strong frame while not blinking and you declaring some command, he will be intimidated and fear you afterwards. 

To truly get everything im saying, this must be contemplated and experienced. 

 

I brought up red pill and I was accused of not liking woman but, last weekend says otherwise ?! 

Great book list. David Deida is a book every man should read especially in the soy boy limp wrist era. Its profound. I've read it many times and I take new insights every time. Ecky is superb fabulous too. 

I don't necessarily agree about intimidating rich people. Cobra Tate is not intimidated. He's a natty. PhD is great but most guys can't execute it. 

As someone said, Todd V is sick. He is less enthusiastic and lively then say rsd Julien blanc but again, most guys can't approach never mind emulate him. Its enough to just approach and learn. There's a entire reddit sub with guys pirating everything but don't approach. Forget discussing pulling. There's torrent downloads for everything but no execution. 

I am either on or stone cold. I spent one night swinging at air before going home to fap. The following night, I was the Tasmanian devil in the bar. Ended back at a girls place getting bobs on her balcony. Woke up to her text wishing I got home safe. 

I needed some electrolytes LULz! 

[LfcCharlie4]

In terms of pure results check out John Anthony Lifestyle, but I mean I’m guessing you’ll be a lot more conscious than he is, most PUAs employ sleezy and manipulative tactics so learn the keys from them, but apply them in a more conscious manner.

[Meetjoeblack]

17 hours ago, Timothy said:

@Meetjoeblack Owen Cook i think is the biggest clown I've ever seen. He's all talk and still embodies a neurotic, loud, obnoxious try hard despite all the spiritual/trauma release bs he preaches. 

He is ridiculous. Likely a sociopath. Guess what? He runs the largest pickup and dating company in the world. He made millions and millions of dollars. Buddy changed my life along with his team. 

Again, show me better? 99% of men don't approach. I suspect its low testosterone and low libido. Even the less than 1℅ who actually approach SUCK. Less than 1% actually pull and or have any consistency what so ever. 

[Meetjoeblack]

9 hours ago, LfcCharlie4 said:

In terms of pure results check out John Anthony Lifestyle, but I mean I’m guessing you’ll be a lot more conscious than he is, most PUAs employ sleezy and manipulative tactics so learn the keys from them, but apply them in a more conscious manner.

Dude, be careful with who you follow. 

https://www.thedailybeast.com/the-pickup-artist-too-sleazy-for-pickup-artists

 

[Beginner Mind]

Coach Corey Wayne.

[Shin]

18 hours ago, LfcCharlie4 said:

In terms of pure results check out John Anthony Lifestyle, but I mean I’m guessing you’ll be a lot more conscious than he is, most PUAs employ sleezy and manipulative tactics so learn the keys from them, but apply them in a more conscious manner.

In the end it is still technics though, it isn't rooted and grounded in our real masculinity.

What would really work on the long run, is to understand the psychology of both sex, and how to feel masculine and powerful naturally as a men (like David Deida materials for exemple).

Then there needs no technics, it goes on auto pilot, it feels totally natural, nothing to remember, and It flows out of us without even thinking 0,1 second about it.

 

[28 cm unbuffed]

@Shin

I saw you're into nofap mate, how about karezza?

[Shin]

20 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

@Shin

I saw you're into nofap mate, how about karezza?

I have no idea what that is so I don't know

[28 cm unbuffed]

@Shin

having sex without busting a nut

aka nofap lvl 2

btw: weren't you curious to google it and check for yourself? writing "i don't know" took you longer and didn't bring anything lol

Edited January 9, 2020 by 28 cm unbuffed

[Shin]

44 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

@Shin

having sex without busting a nut

aka nofap lvl 2

btw: weren't you curious to google it and check for yourself? writing "i don't know" took you longer and didn't bring anything lol

Prioritities ?

[LfcCharlie4]

@Meetjoeblack hence why I gave the warning. I don’t follow PUAs as I’m in a relationship. 
 

ive seen all the shit on him before. 
 

But, his overall advice is solid as foundational advice. Just he himself has a major sex addiction and many psychological issues, a lot of PUAs do tbf. 

@Shin Yeah, but once you embed these techniques of approaching, how to frame, how to text etc, it will really help. And you no longer think about it as it becomes natural. 
 

But I agree you want it to become natural, however for the average guy who’s into pickup tbis will take a lot of work. 

 

[Shin]

9 minutes ago, LfcCharlie4 said:

@Meetjoeblack hence why I gave the warning. I don’t follow PUAs as I’m in a relationship. 
 

ive seen all the shit on him before. 
 

But, his overall advice is solid as foundational advice. Just he himself has a major sex addiction and many psychological issues, a lot of PUAs do tbf. 

@Shin Yeah, but once you embed these techniques of approaching, how to frame, how to text etc, it will really help. And you no longer think about it as it becomes natural. 
 

But I agree you want it to become natural, however for the average guy who’s into pickup tbis will take a lot of work. 

 

What is really worth it takes time and effort ?

[LfcCharlie4]

@Shin People don't like truths like that though, it doesn't sell well  

[Meetjoeblack]

19 hours ago, Timothy said:

@Meetjoeblack cool I still hate him. Hes succesfull cause hes a phoney

Millions of dollars + game + verified on IG. #Winning

[Meetjoeblack]

5 hours ago, LfcCharlie4 said:

@Meetjoeblack hence why I gave the warning. I don’t follow PUAs as I’m in a relationship. 
 

ive seen all the shit on him before. 
 

But, his overall advice is solid as foundational advice. Just he himself has a major sex addiction and many psychological issues, a lot of PUAs do tbf. 

@Shin Yeah, but once you embed these techniques of approaching, how to frame, how to text etc, it will really help. And you no longer think about it as it becomes natural. 
 

But I agree you want it to become natural, however for the average guy who’s into pickup tbis will take a lot of work. 

 

Agreed. +1

Ty changed my life. He's a sociopath. He's CRAZY. In terms of game, I witnessed Julien is better. Still, he's low SMV and he has succeeded. 

Becoming a natty is the best way. I don't care for pickup lingo. I watch the content but I don't talk it. I just approach. I respect the OGs of the game. Guys like Mystery who at the time, had ground breaking content, 3sec rule, time bridge, dhv, qualify, etc. Its ridiculous with peacock theory but string theory is bang on. 

I never did routines or canned material. I am saying, I can approach and SNL pull. Its second nature. The only thing is that, when is it end game? I started pickup to find a wife. In the process, i got acquainted with female nature. The game refers to it as "bigger better prize." the red pill call it hypergamy. 

I don't know anymore. I just know there's no going back. Furthermore, not in the mood means next. I miss rsd Julien. That dude is fire. 

[Meetjoeblack]

11 hours ago, Shin said:

In the end it is still technics though, it isn't rooted and grounded in our real masculinity.

What would really work on the long run, is to understand the psychology of both sex, and how to feel masculine and powerful naturally as a men (like David Deida materials for exemple).

Then there needs no technics, it goes on auto pilot, it feels totally natural, nothing to remember, and It flows out of us without even thinking 0,1 second about it.

 

Cute sentiment. 

Its 2020. Its a era of girl power. When Chad's and Tyrone stop blowing up her phone, its victimhood and #metoo. Conveniently, its never peak SMV 18-23. Its always as Hollywood stops calling. Cosby and weinstein are monsters no doubt but, absurd amounts of women were at his place after hours WHY???? 

RIDDLE ME THAT BATMAN! 

GAME and approaching and pulling lots of girls gets you acquainted with female nature. One word text, flaky bad mood or toxic attitude is all telling. Furthermore, a breakup means wants to be single equates to riding the carousel and or after a new D lol. 

You find out its not all rainbows and butterflies. She's not waiting till marriage. Chad or Tyrone in ibiza in the foam cannon party 20min in and she's all for raw dawg warrior. There's a savage aspect to gene warfare, dating, sex, etc. 

I would have preferred not learning game and living a alternate lifestyle but wtf was the alternative? Wait for her to jump off the carousel? After Tyrone and Chad are done with her? Now I am supposed to man up and what, raise another man's kids? No dice! 

We're 60 years deep in with feminism, affirmative action, status quota hiring, and the past 50yrs of academia has been abysmal for boys. You got sterility in men, soy boys, and open cuckoldry. Pickup is a good alternative to the above and by product to the nonsense. 

 

I love David Deida. His book is probably #1. I've read it a 100x and intake more each time. He calls out the limp wristed girlie man urinated from the seated position. You see these cucks marrying girls after the carousel and her not taking their name. The alpha widow is not a good time. These men are the most spineless cowards and cucks ever. Not shocked they are cucked. 

Game taught me the difference in a girl wanting to be married and wanting to marry me. Wanting a baby and wanting my baby. Its not the same thing. Moreover, most guys go through life blind folded. 

There's no ambiguity for genuine desire. 

[Bill W]

5 minutes ago, Meetjoeblack said:

Game taught me the difference in a girl wanting to be married and wanting to marry me. Wanting a baby and wanting my baby. Its not the same thing. Moreover, most guys go through life blind folded. 

I hate the term game, but I know it's only a word. It just makes me cringe. 

However, that's a powerful bit of content that what I've quoted. Reminds me of the saying "we don't love people, we love how they make us feel" or something like that... anyway, got me thinking. 

[Meetjoeblack]

42 minutes ago, Bill W said:

I hate the term game, but I know it's only a word. It just makes me cringe. 

However, that's a powerful bit of content that what I've quoted. Reminds me of the saying "we don't love people, we love how they make us feel" or something like that... anyway, got me thinking. 

Its savage bro. I do spit bars sometimes! 

I hear you. I cringe doing pickup but Wtf is the alternative? I came from the havenots. No SNL or ons but after absurd years of game and approaching, it all changed. More importantly, girls i didnt get in college or high school are now fat, single moms and miserable. Meanwhile I am seeing hotter and younger. Its funny when a girl looks me up. 

Guys hit their stride late. Girls hit it early. Feminism and the culture taunts girls into squander. As in, when BANGING, when fit, hot, young, and tight, get knocked up and need daddy government.

I watched many get knocked up by the broke ass no job, handle bar mustache and a harley Davidson bike they cannot afford. It didn't end well. 

After pickup, i get it now or more than i did before. The genuine desire is key. Wanting a baby vs wanting my/your baby. I never bought into LMR. It doesn't exist with genuine desire. Only found through a series of approaching or so it has been my experience. 

[Bill W]

@Meetjoeblack Good post mate. I actually looked through some of the other posts you made and saw you writing about "what's the alternative" and it makes sense. I always have to be mindful of my own shadow though. I'm shit at approaching girls, and genuinely don't mind going long stretches without a relationship and the older I've got the happier I am during these single phases (or so I tell myself). I've had some bad experiences in relationships as well, and know full well the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side (being in a relationship), depends on where my head is at, and where her head is at.

When I'm in devilry mode I think I judge pick-up and game as sad but when I am in truth mode to myself I probably just envy people that can do that kind of thing, although I actually don't care for one off sex, that need seemed to leave me a good few years ago. I don't have the incentive to sleep with a stranger as a one off. I'd never thought I'd say that. I'd rather Fap to porn as sad as that sounds. 

I'm actually hoping the next time I have sex it is with my future soul mate!

I had a relationship recently and she wanted to continue just on the basis of sex. Great body, younger than me, pretty, always in the gym, but the conversation was terrible. When I was younger I wouldn't give a shit about the lack of meaningful connection and I'd just take the sex, but now it's different and I am not saying I am better than anyone for that or putting myself on a pedestal or anything. It just is what it is. 

[Shin]

Too much redpill dogma.

You're brainwashed into this shit.

This is such a cancer ???