Self love and transurfing

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Last video from Leo was very interesting to put things together. Leo says all problems root in the absence of self love. Today I was thinking about it and doing the exercise Leo gave about loving parts of oneself that we don’t love. 

Recently I read the book transurfing. This book says that all problems root in giving too much importance for a desired outcome.

I tried to combine these two school of though and this is what I came up with: one should love all outcomes equally. 

What do you guys think?