Advice for life

[Toan]

Hey Guys, 

I am finding myself in a rather difficult situation.

I dropped out of University last month, disillusioned by the workload and uncertain what the purpose of me learning this would be. I wasnt too sure about my life purpose and figured it would be best to simply follow a course which would allow me to explore more deeply what it is that I am there to create. 

And jet as if my situation would not be enough, I fell in love with a women 9 years older than me. She lives in England and works as a Lawyer. I am in Germany. 

I still need to figure out in what field I can get into. 

She wants to commit to me and jet i fell like i there is nothing i can really give to her. 

So if you were so kind to give me some advice how to handle this situation that would be very great. 

How to explore new fields of work

And how to make it work with this women I love so much

[Nickyy]

@Toan Meditate for a couple of hours per day, or even one whole day per week. Use the time to relax into your deepest unknowable self and cut the bond between you and the outside world.

Spend enough time with yourself and you will discover your life purpose. 

Once you do that you will be filled with energy and you will know without a doubt what you can offer your partner. It's not the money or stability she is after, she can do that herself. She is a successful solicitor, she doesn't need you in that capacity. She needs you to know who you are at your deepest level. 

Sort that out and everything will make sense 

Edited December 2, 2019 by Nickyy