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Remember to always focus on the yourself and the situation at hand 

Anything that doesn't improve the situation, don't focus on it.. 

Remove focus away from people who steal your energy. Remove focus away from people who do not help with coping or improving a situation.. 

 


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Spiritual development is a combination of all the three below 

What does spirituality mean 

?Working towards a higher goal. Improving qualities and consciousness. Intensity of the energy or quality. How strong is your intent. How much you concentrate your intent into something. 

?Bringing everything together to benefit your life. Making a salad. Weaving a sweater. To create a perfect form. 

?To serve as a base to everything in life. To inspire every action event or decision in life from this base. 

 

 

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I love food. I wish there was a spiritual element to it

 

I didn't want to call it just food. 

I wish this was my kitchen.... 

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When you are incapable of feeling any real emotion you feel like you are all knowing 

 

Beauty was never bestowed on clowns. 

 

 

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I wanted to discuss my new concept of psychological affinity. 

It means having affinity for something or at least developing it gradually over time  even if you had no liking for something. 

For example let's say I had no liking for cooking . Maybe I don't like to cook. But in harsh weather, where it would be impossible for me to step out and go to my nearest Chinese takeout or pizza shop, I really need to learn cooking and get by during a harsh winter. 

 

So yes in this case I'll have to develop interest in cooking even if I don't like it. This gradual affinity I develop over time for something I don't usually like can be called psychological affinity. 

 


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Then the next thing I wanted to get into is counterintuitive behavior. 

The more you learn to sway away from intuitive behavior its better. Always be counterintuitive always. 

This behavior helps with survival. 

 

 

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42 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

If someone pressures into believing that you are not the type thats likable then you should simply reply 

"that's not my comfort space"... That's alll. 

 

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Just now, Preety_India said:

If you have someone who truly loves you, you will not need to advertise yourself.. 

 

 

 

 


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Hmm 

The next insight I have in line is this 

I will call it different types of projections 

  • The intuitive Projection 
  • The counterintuitive Projection 
  • The diabolic projection 
  • The predatory Projection 
  • The comfort space Projection 
  • The imaginary Projection 

 

The intuitive Projection  

This is the most natural projection

 

 

The counterintuitive Projection 

This is against the natural projection 

 

 

 

 

The diabolic projection 

This is complex and uses evil manifestations to achieve the higher good

 

 

 

 

The predatory Projection 

This is the Projection that is needed for survival and for protection. It helps in assertion and defense. Combat.. 

 

 

The comfort space Projection 

This is about creating a comfort space for yourself and for others. 

Look for Empowering and disempowering aspects, 

 

 

The imaginary Projection 

Here you can visualize an ideal Projection. How it's going to be. How you want it to be. Etc. Helps in visualization.. 

 


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On 11/20/2019 at 7:40 PM, Preety_India said:

Reactivity VS combative VS defensive 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Reactivity 

When you react. 

 

 

Combative 

When you do not react.. Deflect. The focus is on the other person. Increasing aggression in the other. Also diffusion.. 

 

 

 

 

Defensive 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I was talking about Institutional help 

 

 

 


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How to connect to the mother of kindness. MOF

I'll write about this some day. 

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Defensive behavior 

 

How to display defensive behavior

 

  • Draw boundaries 
  • Make boundaries clear and certain 
  • No people pleasing 
  • Very assertive and direct 
  • I don't give a fuck attitude 
  • Demarcating your comfort zone 
  • Healthy coping mechanisms 
  • Avoidance of toxic interactions
  • Thinking from the big picture perspective 
  • Oppositional statements 
  • Self encouragement 
  • Becoming emotionally independent 
  • Learning detecting and avoiding people who can give you a hard time 

 

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Then you reach a level of consciousness and maturity and focus and experience and Mastery and then its reaching that one point of full consciousness which has no returning back once you have that level of maturity you have simply beauty within you within your mind..

You become a truthseeker but more or less you become the truth 

????. I will call this point as the "Point of Conscious Maturity" 

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I totally believe in brain programming 

. And I want to do some progress with this aspect. I really wanted to include it into my spirituality kit. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Spirituality concepts for the bucket list this week 

 

  • Point of Conscious Maturity concept 
  • Brain programming 
  • Psychological affinity 

 

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I don't give 2 fcks about you. I have better things to do. 

What a mean thing to say right? 

 

I want to blend the concepts of both psychological affinity and brain programming and fuse them together into one.. 

 

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the concept of the black swan and the white  swan. 
the concept of the black wolf and the white wolf. 
there are 3 archetypes 
the demon and the good and the goblin 
the demon 
the goblin is a villain whose job is to teach . goblin is evil too


the demon is a villain who hurts . evil 


the good always teaches to be good and do good. 

 

 

Demon -  horned bull ...from my lucid dreaming

Satan is a variant of the demon

 

Good - Nightingale

 

Goblin - goblin 

Devil is a variant of the evil goblin. 

 


there are 2 basic archetypes.
good and evil 
50 percent from both need to be taken or adopted to create an ideal person who is balanced. 

The balanced being archetype represented by a  jackal..

 


now there are certain things that came to me during morning meditation

♥️absolute control
♥️absolute discipline
♥️conscious/mindful curation of every element and moment. careful curation
♥️if you are able to control this moment you are doing good
we are unable to have absolute control in life though. that's why judgment is invalid. 
♥️3000 herbs recipe .now imagine you had to make a dish with 3000 different herbs carefully curated or added to make the recipe. this is how it all works. there cannot be any mistake in the proportions of the herbs added. that's how things work .
but disciplining the moral and ethical and behavioral side is a must. that's called discipline. like military style discipline. 

Mindful curation since beginning over decades is a must. 

There is nothing like pure evil or pure good. These are facets of the personality. The evil should not become destructive and the good should not become self annihilating or self sacrificial. 

The purpose of the evil is self preservation. 

They are just shades on the same spectrum but at extreme ends. 

Thus evil is not wholly evil because it will get too toxic so it has some good in it. The good is good at it's own expense but still has some slight evil in it . 

Rest in the middle of the spectrum, there are combinations of good and evil in different proportions but moderate. 

Evil above a limit becomes destructive and good beyond a limit becomes degradative. 

Keeping boundaries for both is a way to keep proper balance. Balance is the key. 

The evil mostly recoils and resides as a shadow. Evil also exposes weaknesses and does desensitization. 

 

Good, kind, brave, strong, weak , evil, foolish are different facets of a personality.  Different facets emerge in different situations. 

The people pleasing queen archetype and the villainous archetype. 


 

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12 hours ago, Preety_India said:

 

 

I want to blend the concepts of both psychological affinity and brain programming and fuse them together into one.. 

 

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Also reward mechanism

 

 

 


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