Clare Graves Scale And Relationships

[Natasha]

After watching Leo's Clare Graves Psychological Development video, I could place myself on a color chart as being predominantly 'green' with about 10% 'orange' and 30% 'yellow'. Since we can't go back down on the chart, what my relationship options should be then? I see a lot of 'blue', 'orange' and a few 'green' guys around, but once you enter Tier 2 ('yellow'), dating someone from those stages can be kind of hard for the lack of like-mindedness and levels of awareness/ consciousness. I am highly tolerant and down to earth, just trying to be real about what would work and what would not.

Any suggestions?  

[Dhana Choko]

Unfortunately I have no suggestions, since I feel like I am predominantly Yellow (a little bit of green and little bit of turquoise).  I tried Tinder few days ago and it just left me depressed.  

I was in a relationship for almost 3 years with someone predominantly Green(and Blue and Orange)and it was very difficult for me. I was not as dominantly Yellow then as I am now but it was still very difficult. So I am not going that road again. It might be that I will not date again. I am fine with that as well. 

[Carl.L]

Might be a good idea to focus more on finding someone with some certain characteristics you deeply adore and not mainly focus on the maturity levels of your partner (to some extent). I suspect that the best relationships are between the ones that wish to love and help each other to dance life out in the most spectacular way possible. This probably do not require a perfectly matched maturity level.