No Fap actually changes

[Bridge to Infinity]

I was doing it 8-15 times a day until I stopped, wow what a difference, I have so much more energy and clarity and creativity.

My dreams are full of life and are very vivid.

My attitude has changed (more will power, motivation) 

my life feels like im on auto pilot and im doing the things that better me.

[Fede83]

Hey the longest streak I went was 70 days. I can tell was life changing, especially the energy and motivation to doing what inspired u,in ur life,and keep going over and over to reach ur goals.

if u ever fall just keep back on track is worth it ❤️?

[Bridge to Infinity]

@Fede83 I feel so much calmer in social interactions virtually 10 less anxious like the anxiety is so little and immediately is dominated with courage. and this is coming from a person who was very neurotic and insecure. I used to fap a lot as I said. discovering no fap is litterally life changing and it hasn't been much. 

I don't want to ask questions because the answers will probably lead me to placebo. 

[Ananta]

5 hours ago, Bridge to Infinity said:

I was doing it 8-15 times a day until I stopped

How does one find enough time in the day for this much? 

I've pretty much thought no fap was mostly for ppl addicted to sex or masturbation. 

Would you feel you had to do no fap if you could only masturbate 1 or 2 times a day?

[ADD]

1 minute ago, Anna1 said:

How does one find enough time in the day for this much? 

I've pretty much thought no fap was mostly for ppl addicted to sex or masturbation. 

Would you feel you had to do no fap if you could only masturbate 1 or 2 times a day?

Yes i only masturbated max one time per day and stopping it made huge difference. Self-confidence goes through the roof (in a positive way)

[Ananta]

@ADD Hmm, interesting. Must be a man thing.

[ADD]

Just now, Anna1 said:

@ADD Hmm, interesting. Must be a man thing.

It is, some women do nofap aswell, but i'm not sure if it has such affect on them.

[Bridge to Infinity]

4 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

How does one find enough time in the day for this much? 

I've pretty much thought no fap was mostly for ppl addicted to sex or masturbation. 

Would you feel you had to do no fap if you could only masturbate 1 or 2 times a day?

you're assuming all people are like you or your friend group.

 

reducing it to twice a day seems like a bad move, its un natural to did even once a day. plus I doubt I will get the no fap benefits if I do, do that.

[Ananta]

1 minute ago, Bridge to Infinity said:

you're assuming all people are like you or your friend group.

I am assuming nothing. I had asked a question.

[Bridge to Infinity]

@Anna1 ok

 

[Ananta]

@ADD I see, ty

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

 

Everything in moderation. I would cut the porn if I were you, at least until your sexual sensitivity is fully healed or unless you can find a way to use it responsibly in moderation in the future. No fap is good on a short term basis but long term eliminating all masturbation against your desire will cause problems as well. 

[Bridge to Infinity]

@TrynaBeTurquoise what if instead you just had sex, wouldn't that be a more authentic way of sexual expression.

for me this is not yet a reality, I have to attract women and im learning that still. but im saying in the near future im confident I will have no problems having sex with girlfriends and what not.

[TrynaBeTurquoise]

4 hours ago, Bridge to Infinity said:

@TrynaBeTurquoise what if instead you just had sex, wouldn't that be a more authentic way of sexual expression.

for me this is not yet a reality, I have to attract women and im learning that still. but im saying in the near future im confident I will have no problems having sex with girlfriends and what not.

Of course but in reality even when you have access to sex when you want sometimes you will find yourself in situations where you still want to masturbate from time to time. 

[Bridge to Infinity]

@TrynaBeTurquoise yea totally but I just feel like such a dick bag when I do fap, I feel like my life energies are being robbed. having sex requires connection, intimacy, understanding, some problem solving, physical effort, being in the moment, ecstatic presentness... Im sure that does something to counter act the act of losing semen.

I don't know how valid this is but Paramahansa Yogananda talked about the releasing of semen as if it was losing a lot of life force, same was said by sadhguru. 

[Aeris]

It's true when you overfap.

But one per / 2 days is ok

Some prn some weed.

But I have my gf but I like to fap alone ( a bit lower than me on the overall libido )

Edited November 6, 2019 by Aeris

[Bridge to Infinity]

@Aeris that's you. im glad you know what works for you. 

for me I have some mild ADD and so whatever fapping does to the average brain I feel like the effects double or even triple with me. Not fapping gives me life. it sounds weird but there is no other way to explain it. Life meaning I feel alive where as before I felt numb and dare I say dead to some degree.

[Bridge to Infinity]

@ADD your name is my brain

[Harikrishnan]

8-15 times a day. Did i read that right. What is down there?  Are u some kind of Machiene like in terminator movies. ? 

 

[Bridge to Infinity]

@Harikrishnan its the truth. I know it was too much.