Is virgin a pride?

[Conscious life]

Is a virginity something to be proud of? 

[remember]

i could ask you now: are you a male or a woman? and then i would say it is neither a pride nor something to be ashamed of it is just something you should hold in value and care, not over valuing it, because the first time should not be something to just get over with, even though it sometimes is because it can also be a huge hurdle. be aware that some people make a huge thing out of that and will abuse and devalue or overvalue it in any direction. virginity is not only a bodyly phenomenon but a spiritual aswell, try to see through the attempt of so called spirituality to make a tradable good out of it, which is for sale, it belongs to a persons treasur box of experiences, just don`t trade cheaply with it. and don`t save it up to make a monopoly deal. do it with someone you like and trust, that will give you soo much more than any pride or deal.

Edited October 23, 2019 by remember

[Spiral]

@Conscious life For some people it is. Depends on culture, gender and religions beliefs.

[remember]

@Conscious life or you could also think in that direction that virginity is reclaimed always if you reclaim it, because with every new approach and with every new partner you will experience it differently, in that sense you can stay virgine to the innocent and experimental part within yourself. even if you might have some not so nice experiences, it`s about listening what you want or want not. that`s what virginity in a spiritual sense is pointing towards. not talking about a rollplay set up but more about an emotional approach towards sexuality.

Edited October 23, 2019 by remember

[28 cm unbuffed]

@Conscious life 

Depends on your belief system, that's all.

You can have fucked up belief system and be proud of being a massive murderer.

So - whatever you think virginity is, it will be that for you. 

You create your own reality.

 

Edited October 23, 2019 by 28 cm unbuffed

[remember]

14 minutes ago, 28 cm unbuffed said:

@Conscious life 

Depends on your belief system, that's all.

You can have fucked up belief system and be proud of being a massive murderer.

So - whatever you think virginity is, it will be that for you. 

You create your own reality.

 

well yeah, not to forget - where there is innocence there is always exploitation and brute distruction of that what is whole and in a sense holly about a person. people sometimes call it naivity, but no reason why it shouldn`t be possible to be not naive and still be innocent.

Edited October 23, 2019 by remember

[Shakazulu]

I remember being made fun of for not fucking my girlfriend when I was 18.. it’s been two years since our break up and I’m still a virgin lol. I have grew a lot though! You’re not alone 

[Red-White-Light]

@Conscious life yes

[ajasatya]

@Conscious life We're born virgin. There's no need for pride. And also, the chances of dying virgin are extremely low, so there's no need for pride when you lose your virginity either. It's a natural thing. It's part of the dance of Life.

Being virgin or not being virgin. It really doesn't matter. Straight up your priorities.