How To Make A Decisión With Real Growth?

[carlo]

my girlfriend asked me for a thresome and I am very emotional and confused right now, after a while she regrets and said me that she dont know what she was talking about and that just forget about that. off course I can`t and i try meditate for a while and watch leo`s videos. but now i dont know what is the problem here, if i have fear of a thresome for seeing my girlfrind touching someone else and if the solution of tht problem is trusting she, or let go the need of being the only one who can touch in the bed my girlfriend  o talk to she, listen and just trust and forget that. I feel like really really not know what to do. which is the problem and the solution with real growth.

P.S sorry for my english, im working on that.

and sorry if this topic was in relationships and datong, but  want a self-actualization point of view.

[Azrael]

I'm sorry dude but there is only one true decision in the self-actualized way of life: To take this fucking thresome like a man.