Should I Cut Or Not?

[Alytheyogi]

I have this huge problem with my mother. There is no way for me to talk with her without her going all mad and turning things around, often start to call me all kinds of things and try to put shame on me.

This has been going on for my whole life and it's worse now that I'm no longer a kid (i'm 26). It's easy to see the reason to why she acts the way she does but of course I don't yell that back at her. I do my best to say as little as possible and only speak truth and sometimes when it's too crazy I don't answer cause I'm pretty sure it will make things worse. We mostly write messages since we live quite far away from each other.

I have no longer any idea of how to act. I continue to question if I should cut the relationship with her? if I choose not to, the only way for me is to be ok with the situation or do someone have any idea? Intellectually I can see the madness but I really can't stop feeling like someone is dragging me down when it comes to her. 

 

[Natasha]

@Alytheyogi Hope this info helps you put things in perspective. Hugs

 

[Lynnel]

Honestly, children tend to miss percieve how their mother behaves and see things that aren't even there.

Until you have lots of perspectives from different people, friends, therapist, forums with similar cases, don't do anything drastic. Once you're sure it would benefit you then yes, cut it.

[Alytheyogi]

On 20/5/2016 at 0:43 AM, Natasha said:

@Alytheyogi Hope this info helps you put things in perspective. Hugs

 

Hi! I can't thank you enough for sending me this video! It's like finally having a diagnose and knowing I am not crazy. thank you thank you thank you. _/\_

[Natasha]

4 hours ago, Alytheyogi said:

Hi! I can't thank you enough for sending me this video! It's like finally having a diagnose and knowing I am not crazy. thank you thank you thank you. _/\_

You're welcome  Knowledge is power.