Anti-PUA game - REAL GAME

[AlwaysBeNice]

Don't trust typical PUA stuff, pua was a damaging field to me, it really gave me a skewed view expectation of the world and poor thinking habits, I listened to a lot of RSD as a teen and went out.

Was sort of 'successful' in a way but never cultivated a real beautiful relationship out of it.

 Why is it harmful? Because relationship, man woman energy, is the most sacred expression of life, and shouldn't be forced or manipulated in any way.

Man - woman (energy) are the perfect mirrors for each other to learn to love and heal, if you are busy with manipulating, you are missing the point of love entirely already in that moment, and that is not a basis for a truthful relation to grow well on, then you are sabotaging yourself out of the process you seek from the beginning.

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Real game.

What is real game? Real game is practicing the game of life that leads to actual powerful grounded spiritual growth, which just revolves around being honest.

Honesty as to how you feel, and you if cannot know how you feel or what you honestly want, then take a step back, say that, that's honest too.

The opposite of honesty is just lying, that's it.

If you can refrain from that in Life you are really powerful and you will be able to do well, people can respect and trust you.

And it is not about perfect memory, you can make some mistakes, but you know deep down when you are trying to manipulate, even when you try to do it a little bit, or when you know and remember the truth, with your heart.

(It's actually surprising how many people cannot do this!! If you can do this, you are quite ahead of many.)

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As to some actual tips for game.

-Use it to get beyond your ego, that's very powerful and noble, and part of what PUA has right. Just as just getting out there, and talking to people you find interesting, that's noble and honest. That's attractive as well, interesting.

So using it to go beyond your ego: respect women.

Women are powerful and sensitive, they'll know whats up anyways, except for the stupid ones.

And you don't want to be with the some random 'wrong one' or she'll just annoy you, create drama or problems with you..

Just be honest, if you are interested in a women you think is out of reach, tell her it like that, they'll respect it, what's the worst that could happen. 

There's absolutely no need to insult them in anyway to try and get their respect, that's utmost foolishness, will create more negative karma,

but you don't have to be a rug either, accepting bullshit because they are an 'attractive female', of course not.

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Lastly, women are just attracted to true powerful men, and how does that cultivate in you?

Life experience, spiritual depth, honesty and nobleness.

Truthfulness is the most powerful thing in the world, because everyone can feel and see it, and going against truthfulness is going against the heart and is inherently painful.

So do your best to just be honest, cultivate depth, and get out there and learn if you are young.

Don't just seek relationship for it's sake.

Relationship is no small matter, or if it's a small matter then it's useless anyways.

You don't have to chase that, it'll come rightly as to how developed you are, and just some relationship won't make you happy anyways, it's needs to have depth and truth.

[NoSelfSelf]

You misunderstood pick up phase and relationship phase between man and women...

Edited October 4, 2019 by NoSelfSelf

[electroBeam]

Super great post. +1

Some PUA may be healthy and of value but the dark side can be very problematic.

Its not only that the dark side of PUA doesn't lead to a successful relationship, using manipulative techniques makes you feel inauthentic, guilty, like you're wasting your time. It can make you feel incongruent with your higher self. If you are too conscious, doing manipulative techniques can really hurt yourself, once you see the big picture of what youre actually doing.