“It is never the person, it is always the expression for that which is perceived” in any interaction there takes place a mirroring effect. The vibrational frequency matches the experience being received.  Go ahead and try it out, delve into a particular feeling state, like the self loather, then watch as reality manifests self fulfilling experiences that keep this state in motion  what you might like to know is we are all made up of energy and electromagnetic polarity is in play. Energy beings attract similar frequencies and this becomes perception while there may appear to be coincidences, luck IS attracted my friends  We are the Xperiences we attract, you have been warned Be aware and stay lucky?