Casual Relationship with Girls

[Raptorsin7]

If a girl claims she only wants a casual relationship because she just got out of her first LTR, and is still young she's 21, is it likely she actually means in or is there a chance the girl will flip and become clingy and attached. I have a girl coming over i bet on bumble, and my fear is that she will change her mind and then become angry/vengeful if i don't reciprocate. I have no intention for something serious, and this girl strikes me as very sexual, just based on your messages, and i don't know if it's a red flag for when i eventually try and break it off. Am i overthinking this? Any thoughts? We're both university students, at a large and good school, so that makes me more relaxed knowing at this age people are much more sexually liberal. I don't have a lot of experience with hook ups, and i can be kind of anxious sometimes. Any insight would be appreciated.

[universe]

Yes you are overthinking this. You havent even met.

Are you usually fearful of people becoming angry with you?

[Raptorsin7]

My fear here is that i break it off at some point, and she gets vindictive and blackmails me or claims sexual assault out of spite. I"m concerned about my reputation as well. Yea, i'd say i'm somewhat fearful of people getting angry at me.

[Leo Gura]

7 hours ago, Raptorsin7 said:

My fear here is that i break it off at some point, and she gets vindictive and blackmails me or claims sexual assault out of spite. I"m concerned about my reputation as well. Yea, i'd say i'm somewhat fearful of people getting angry at me.

Those aren't healthy fears. You got some toxic beliefs to drop.

Women do not blackmail men for sleeping with them. LOL

You are projecting your own twisted mind onto women.

Of course if you sleep with a woman enough it will get serious and she will want some commitment from you. The mistake is trying to avoid that. Rather embrace it. Or then don't sleep with her more than a few times.

[Raptorsin7]

@Leo Gura Ok, thanks for the advice. Yea, i agree my mind can definitely can get out of whack haha