boyfreind is in love with two

[milii]

hello

i want to share my problems to u guys that my boyfreind has cheated on me for no reasons after alot of aurguments  and fights he finally gave his decision that he cannot live without me and her too she is her childhood freind and her ex too for some reasons he moved to another city and found me as her new girlfreind he never ever told me about his past he always claimed that i am his first love i fall in love deeply with him i am still loyal with him but i cannot share him he says that another girl love him too and he also love her how is it possible a man can love two at the same time he is not convinced into getting me engaged somwhere else he dont allow me to have relation with sombody else i have said him to leave her and be mine and i am yours he denied by saying "baby i cant marry you nor i can leave her" i am totally lost what the hell is happening is he trying to torture me mentally or he realy needs me 

[Raptorsin7]

Sounds like a very toxic relationship. My advice, breakup with him and see a therapist and talk about how you were attracted to the kind of guy who would cheat on you and then try and maintain both relationships.

[Emerald]

I recommend setting your boundaries and have him choose her instead. It will make the decision easier for him. He will no longer have to choose between the two of you.

And best of all, you will be rid of a lukewarm and duplicitous partner and able to find one who loves you in particular.

 

[oMarcos]

@milii Your boyfriend is afraid to be alone as much as you do, maybe he want's to make sure that you stay for him in "case of emergency". He wants to have a backup plan, you are the plan B. Imo he is just playing games to keep you stuck, and that's very selfish of him. But don't take anything I said as a fact, see for yourself and don't let the fear of losing him control your self worth,  you are better than that. Work on yourself, expect nothing from him.

Edited September 28, 2019 by oMarcos

[milii]

@oMarcos i am trying to get over him do pray i live a happy and normal life again