I don't understand homos

[Truth Addict]

@Emerald

Thank you so much. That makes perfect sense, and actually the fear started dissolving right away since the reason became apparent. I will do some of the suggestions that you made. Thank you, you are absolutely awesome! ?

[Emerald]

50 minutes ago, Truth Addict said:

@Emerald

Thank you so much. That makes perfect sense, and actually the fear started dissolving right away since the reason became apparent. I will do some of the suggestions that you made. Thank you, you are absolutely awesome! ?

You're welcome.  I'm glad it was helpful. 

 

[MuddyBoots]

I'd start by saying how porn is completely unreal and often involving exploitation of either the models or the viewers. It's no good as a guide for real relationships. In any case, I worry what effect the availability of internet porn (straight & other) is having on young people growing up.

If someone is disgusted by the thought (or sight) of gay sex, that doesn't necessarily mean they have any suppressed tendencies, that is just their preference. But is there also a projection of our own preference out onto the other person? That is, if it's a fact that gay sex is disgusting for me (I am straight), is there another action of me projecting and saying the gay person is disgusting? But from the gay person's point of view, he is doing something loving and beautiful. Maybe that's the mistake, not recognising different POVs.

As a straight man you may feel disgust at the thought of a gay man coming on to you. Maybe this can give you an insight into what life is like for a good looking woman being pestered by unwanted attention from men. Often the societies which put a taboo on gays also control women's sexuality. This is global, my own country used to be like this until the 1960s.

As a 13-14 year old, you were only a child and a victim of abuse, so yes it's really sad that you felt your parents would blame you rather than support you. Whether that was true or not you don't know, but the fact that you believed it says a lot about the culture. Not just your culture, child abuse exists in every country and we forget how recently we have been waking up to the problem.

Edited September 29, 2019 by MuddyBoots

[oMarcos]

@Truth Addict a thread like this made by someone who says to be a "truth addict", you may not yet realized what Chaos actually means. People are wired into infinite identity hipothesis, and so what

[Aeris]

On 27/09/2019 at 3:28 AM, pluto said:

All forms of life have purpose in creation. Creation does not make mistakes.

That's why my envy for being in an immortal body out of the human imperfection is the simple expression from the will of création that I m too.

[PlayOnWords]

On 9/26/2019 at 8:21 PM, Emerald said:

That said, because I am more attracted to men than women, it took me until I was like 20 to come to terms with my sexuality and admit to myself that I am bi-sexual. I was still fearing social judgment and scorn about it until then.

Deja vu. Lol. 

[GromHellScream]

On 9/27/2019 at 4:34 AM, Bas said:

As a straight guy I think it's good to flirt with gay men, have fun, get intimate, kiss them passionately. T

 

 

 

gay.