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@VeganAwake  And that then discounts the feminine who sees the other as God. Which shouldn't exist since only the Self/God exists. Apparently there is no self-other. That's a distinction. So her preference for other shouldn't exist 

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@Artaemis Ofcourse you can. That's part of your beauty. My preferences change all the time became more nuanced and detailed. That's beauty and perfection of Creation. 

Loving & Healing does it's work on preferences too. Unbeleivable. More mature more pure love based

Pls don't be ? be anything but not that. 

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@zeroISinfinity I noticed this with how myself, and others look in the mirror. As i got happier and felt better, i looked better in the mirror and found more woman attractive etc.

When i was young i was worried i'd never find a girlfriend, because literally all girls i thought were ugly. But it was because i thought myself was ugly, so everyone else was ugly too.

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20 minutes ago, Artaemis said:

@VeganAwake  And that then discounts the feminine who sees the other as God. Which shouldn't exist since only the Self/God exists. Apparently there is no self-other. That's a distinction. So her preference for other shouldn't exist 

There is no discounting anyting..❤

God self other all the same thing...

No preference in everything...

This is a 100% all-inclusive resort with no restrictions or limitations whatsoever...

 


“Everything is honoured, but nothing matters.” — Eckhart Tolle.

"I have lived on the lip of insanity, wanting to know reasons, knocking on a door. It opens. I've been knocking from the inside." -- Rumi

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I love this message. One thing though: I feel that this message can disconnect you with love, compassion and truth for that matter. The ego picks up conditioning from every "teaching" and then uses it as a way of avoiding awakening. The "relative" can be disregarded and "no free will" can make you uncaring and unmotivated.

What I'm getting at is that this is it, BUT there is an apparent continuous dropping away of conditioning that makes it feel and look like there is progress. You can easily bypass working on blind unconscious patterns if you misinterpret the message Vegan speaks. This happened here for quite a while. There's nothing "wrong" with not working on these things, but the message can seemingly dismiss every form of free will and "doing" making one passive and unbothered, even though the "experience" is calling for action and inspection, apparently.

One thing I really recommend to everyone on this forum is trying out TheWork by Byron Katie. This can shed light on the stories you're believing about others. Stories that creates a duality between you and that person. It shows you that your judgement about others applies just as much if not more to yourself. It opens you up to greater love and compassion and frees you from destructive beliefs. It is very effective. Look at  her website for the worksheet, TheWork.com. 

 

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The ego or separate self only cares about one thing, Self Preservation...

It doesn't matter what the organisms Endeavor is, the ego or separate self will take credit from the beginning or try to sneak in the back door and take credit. This is how it keeps itself alive.

The ego is endlessly needy..

It truly is a chameleon...

It can become any identity:

- the spiritual ego

- the do-gooder ego

- the fix yourself ego

- the nothing matters ego

- the everything Is Love ego 

The ego wants more more more for me me me...

More money more power more love more enlightenment more sex more material possessions more conditioning more self-help more compassion more practices

Again the ego is endlessly needy...

The answer never lies within perpetuating or validating the belief of the separate self or ego...( running on the hamster wheel)

You literally have to stop feeding this monster... take the wind out of its sail... let it deflate... become aware of it... Shine the light of awareness on it.

Become aware your mind is controlling you disentangle from social conditioning and snap out of The Matrix... free yourself & your mind..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


“Everything is honoured, but nothing matters.” — Eckhart Tolle.

"I have lived on the lip of insanity, wanting to know reasons, knocking on a door. It opens. I've been knocking from the inside." -- Rumi

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44 minutes ago, VeganAwake said:

The ego or separate self only cares about one thing, Self Preservation...

It doesn't matter what the organisms Endeavor is, the ego or separate self will take credit from the beginning or try to sneak in the back door and take credit. This is how it keeps itself alive.

The ego is endlessly needy..

It truly is a chameleon...

It can become any identity:

- the spiritual ego

- the do-gooder ego

- the fix yourself ego

- the nothing matters ego

- the everything Is Love ego 

The ego wants more more more for me me me...

More money more power more love more enlightenment more sex more material possessions more conditioning more self-help more compassion more practices

Again the ego is endlessly needy...

The answer never lies within perpetuating or validating the belief of the separate self or ego...( running on the hamster wheel)

You literally have to stop feeding this monster... take the wind out of its sail... let it deflate... become aware of it... Shine the light of awareness on it.

Become aware your mind is controlling you disentangle from social conditioning and snap out of The Matrix... free yourself & your mind..

 

Yes. The ego is a constant state of unsatisfactoriness and uneasiness. Child like wonder is the natural state, open and one. Simultaneously nowhere and everywhere, nothing and everything. No location, always home. Paradoxically grounded. 

There is apparently methods that can help the mind untangle from itself. As I said, byron Katie has a great worksheet for this. Might seem counterintuitive as if it is fuelling the dream, but no, it's a tool to recognize how futile the story actually is.

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Yes nothing wrong with making the dream a little more comfortable..

Just being aware of the dream and egoic self agenda is priceless ?


“Everything is honoured, but nothing matters.” — Eckhart Tolle.

"I have lived on the lip of insanity, wanting to know reasons, knocking on a door. It opens. I've been knocking from the inside." -- Rumi

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