Can i live a Happy & Content Life Without Sex?

[flowboy]

@remember Because if you have expectations, can't let go in the moment, or get clingy/overly attached and lose your center, typically women will immediately stop being attracted to you and want to run away, or keep you as a very distant 'friend'. It's nature's way of telling you to stay centered as a man

[remember]

@flowboy mhh i was never good as a man

only tried to be one with around 7 or 8 it was not really fitting.

Edited September 5, 2019 by remember

[Charlotte]

@SQAAD I'd honestly say it depends on the individual. I don't think you can generalise a topic like this. I'd say women more so can easily live without it. I speak to people that would rather shit in their hands and clap than have sex. It's a chore for them and they're happier without them. Now whether that's because the sex is shit is a whole nother topic ?

[Charlotte]

33 minutes ago, flowboy said:

Actually women will teach you this, it's in their nature.

There were research published that women feel a heightened intimate connection right after sex than men. I also experience this. 

[Aeris]

19 minutes ago, Charlotte said:

@SQAAD I'd honestly say it depends on the individual. I don't think you can generalise a topic like this. I'd say women more so can easily live without it. I speak to people that would rather shit in their hands and clap than have sex. It's a chore for them and they're happier without them. Now whether that's because the sex is shit is a whole nother topic ?

They didn't experience a true man like me. 

Early day I was overfocus on making my gf enjoy before me.

Now I start to become a sex god. Synchronisation !

If my gf didn't enjoy it. I don't enjoy it.

Early day she was ok when she got an orgasm once in a while ( whaaat I told myself : it's wrong ! )

Weed Can aswell help a lot with good sex for people having physical/mind contraction. 

I m a neck bitter and I m really serious about early game.

[flowboy]

57 minutes ago, Charlotte said:

There were research published that women feel a heightened intimate connection right after sex than men. I also experience this. 

I know. But if the man gets more attached and clingy than the woman, brace yourself... He will be punished

[remember]

there are always people who like to shit on others or like to shit on themselves more than others shitting on them, but it`s probably not a matter of fuckability if we do either of it, it`s more a matter of values. might be that getting fucked elevates some and some don`t get that`s not just about elevating oneself.

i heard horses shit to mark their territorry.

Edited September 5, 2019 by remember

[whoareyou]

14 hours ago, SQAAD said:

I personally know people who live without sex for years & they are ok. They are almost as ok as people who engage in sex.

Both those groups are starved dogs. Who does get enough sex nowadays? Even Dan Bilzerian doesn't get enough sex.

The more you have sex, the more you wanna have sex. Like an addiction & you suffer.

You don't have sex? You still suffer because of the desire. So it's about which sh*t sandwitch are you willing to eat. 

I am just tasting a new flavor now.

Your self-bias is blinding you pretty bad. The reason why you are not having sex is not because you CHOOSE to go celibate, but because you HAVE no choice. Instead of whining and creating "spiritual" justifications for your misery, work on yourself and find yourself a partner with who you can be intimate. It is beyond cringy and pathetic 

[remember]

1 hour ago, whoareyou said:

Your self-bias is blinding you pretty bad. The reason why you are not having sex is not because you CHOOSE to go celibate, but because you HAVE no choice. Instead of whining and creating "spiritual" justifications for your misery, work on yourself and find yourself a partner with who you can be intimate. It is beyond cringy and pathetic 

how do you know this? it might be that he is just sick of the group pressure and pressure sexuality puts on him. why starting to throw around with words like pathetic and cringy? because no fap and celibacy is so out of fashion or what`s the problem? how is it you judge about him right away that he doesn`t have oppotunities? there are thousands of guys without opportunities who are too weak to try it intentionally for some time, or who really struggle to get away from porn. why judging him for wanting to do that?

he asked a question about how important it is to infuse his no fap time with spirituality and what mostly comes back is judgement and hate. why? because it`s so fun triggering?

[whoareyou]

10 hours ago, remember said:

how do you know this? it might be that he is just sick of the group pressure and pressure sexuality puts on him. why starting to throw around with words like pathetic and cringy? because no fap and celibacy is so out of fashion or what`s the problem? how is it you judge about him right away that he doesn`t have oppotunities? there are thousands of guys without opportunities who are too weak to try it intentionally for some time, or who really struggle to get away from porn. why judging him for wanting to do that?

he asked a question about how important it is to infuse his no fap time with spirituality and what mostly comes back is judgement and hate. why? because it`s so fun triggering?

Before you post any further, please learn English. Work on some reading comprehension skills.

If you actually read all of his posts, you would see that his ego is bullshitting him, he is just trying to find reasons and justifications to make it look like he is above "sex", and that not having sex will lead him to enlightenment. 

Put him in a situation where there would be a woman who he finds very attractive wanting to have sex with him, you can be sure that he would do it.

It's much easier to sit on a couch, and write on a forum all day, trying to come up with excuses for your misery, instead of taking action and creating the life that you want to have.  Yes I find it cringy and pathetic, and I am not shy to use those words.

Edited September 6, 2019 by whoareyou

[remember]

@whoareyou my english is probably better than your german or french. before you teach people about language learn to speak from a non ego biased perspective.

might be that his reltionship to his own sexuality is not yet developed but it doesn`t make your relationship to your ego better developed.

you have to learn to discern between self biased language problems and your ability of understanding what someone is communicating to you. shaming someone for wanting to try celibacy or no fap whatever the reasons is probably not universal language. only feeding more frustration and counterreaction. understanding the situation would mean to help him to the insight, that it is an illusion to do it without observing his emotions. cutting of his emotions means ignoring his needs, cutting of his head from the system. of course that would lead to further frustration over time. but that`s exactly what happens if you start shaming him aswell for choosing to go fulltime monk. even monks have their problems of course, that`s why even spirituality is difficult. i would rather try to go for emotional mastery first. but this doesn`t even enter the discussion, because it`s a battle of oppinion about if it is a good or a bad decision to not have sex. sexuality is very intimate and vulnerable and everyone has the right to coaping with it in their ways. getting aggressive about if you get it your ways or not is not the right way to go on about it.

it`s about making love not war.

Edited September 6, 2019 by remember

[Display_Name]

On 05/09/2019 at 8:20 AM, SQAAD said:

Even Dan Bilzerian doesn't get enough sex.

He does, actually. He's stated multiple times he gets enough and doesn't care about it anymore. 

[flowboy]

@whoareyou  I think you have crossed the line from direct to simply disrespectful, and it is not clear to me that you are intent on being helpful. From what I can see, you're simply being arrogant and putting others down for your own enjoyment. If you want to do that, there are other forums that may be better suited for you. I suggest you change your attitude or go find those.

[Forestluv]

@whoareyou Tone it down.

As a general reminder to everyone: This is a global international forum. Many forum members speak English as their second or third language. English is a difficult language to write well.

English shaming can create a toxic environment to our EFL members. Please don't do it.

[remember]

@Serotoninluv efl as in "english football league"?

[Forestluv]

1 minute ago, remember said:

@Serotoninluv efl as in "english football league"?

English as a foreign language

I'm not sure if we have any english football league members