Too Much Of A Nice Guy.. Resources?

[universe]

Action

Make decisions, put yourself first. Dont look for others to make a decision. Listen to your impulse. Start doing things that others maybe dont like - but just do them because you want to.

Look for social interactions and just be with the attention that is given to you. Nice guys always give away the attention to others because they are unconfortable with it.

If others act in a way you dont like. Confront them about it. Dont let it eat you up inside.

 

Mindset

Stop thinking that other people will give you something in return of your nice behaviour. Cut that out and just give out freely if you like. Thats attractive. Dont rely on other people to make you happy.

Be honest. If you dont have the same opinion as someone else - say it. Honor their opinion but dont agree with everything others say. Its not like everyone will like you when you have the some opinion. Thats not going to happen instead they will stop respecting you. Dont bend yourself to make others feel good.

 

Release

Let go of the need for validation. Watch Leos recent video about letting go, research "releasing emotions" and sedona method for more help for this.

Edited September 4, 2019 by universe