first step

[karkaore]

Why am I insecure when it comes to  taking the first step? What am I afraid of? I feel like the vocabulary just goes. Some sort of lag in the brain happens. Funny enough I've had serious 5y/o relationship, feel quite confident in the whole area. It's just this first moments that bother me. Approaching a girl is harder than having a fucking awakening.

I find it hard to relate to people in general too. Have a narrow but strong, close cycle of friends. No girl-friends. Maybe that's a clue to something.

What does one do about this? What's the psychology behind this insecurity?

[PhilGR]

The more you play around with girls the more confident you would feel. Maybe having some girl-friends might help to get used with the female mindset.

[karkaore]

@PhilGR @PhilGR thanks ?

[Gili Trawangan]

Approach, approach, approach. Override the fear and approach. It will diminish.