me vs him.

[koolgirl1217]

my boyfriend always blocks my number and all social media every time he gets angry or doesnt agree with me. I find it quiet exhausting because he seems to view the situation as me vs him instead of me and he vs the problem.  Im at the point where I cant freely express how I feel or my view because I have to be super watchful on what may be the next thing that might flip his switch again. 

[Everyday]

Leave him. You can invest your time better than in a dude who flips and screams like a kid.

[SFRL]

1 hour ago, koolgirl1217 said:

my boyfriend always blocks my number and all social media every time he gets angry or doesnt agree with me. I find it quiet exhausting because he seems to view the situation as me vs him instead of me and he vs the problem.  Im at the point where I cant freely express how I feel or my view because I have to be super watchful on what may be the next thing that might flip his switch again. 

How long have you been seeing each other? 

[NoSelfSelf]

That manipulative behaviour on another cosmic level...how can you be in a relationship where there is no normal communication big red flag

[koolgirl1217]

@SFRL its been 4 years.  

Edited August 17, 2019 by koolgirl1217

[Beginner Mind]

Your boyfriend sounds pretty immature.

[SFRL]

4 hours ago, koolgirl1217 said:

@SFRL its been 4 years.  

Mmm that seems a bit extra. 

For a couple only together a short time I can understand such flare ups. But if you are together for a long time you would expect things to be more mellow. 

[Omni]

2 hours ago, SFRL said:

Mmm that seems a bit extra. 

For a couple only together a short time I can understand such flare ups. But if you are together for a long time you would expect things to be more mellow. 

That's simply not true. Complacency is a huge factor in relationships and the interactions within them. 

 

@koolgirl1217

you're looking for external reasons to stay with him, the solution is already there. You've tried it for 4 years, it didn't work. End it.

[Lubomir]

Yeah, with these informations said -> Leav him