Killed the sex drive.

[ActualizedDavid]

I'm like this. I did not have much sex in the last year. It is wired. I feel alienated from my body most of the time when i have sex.

I managed to have some intense sex and be the watcher and that i enjoyed . Enjoyed alot. 

Just watch what happens and do not think alot... That helped me.

[inFlow]

@ActualizedDavid hmm great advice tho.

[Natasha]

@inFlow Trying to please your partner and watch them get off regardless of how you're feeling at the moment might bring that zing back. Stay in flow (haha) during the action, focus on her, and see how it goes

[abrakamowse]

17 minutes ago, Natasha said:

@inFlow Trying to please your partner and watch them get off regardless of how you're feeling at the moment might bring that zing back. Stay in flow (haha) during the action, focus on her, and see how it goes

Awesome advice Natasha.

Same thing is happening to me, so it is normal @inFlow don't worry too much. Now I think of it like "before sex controlled me, now I have control over sex". You will enjoy it much more than before, you will see.