Do You Keep Dreaming When You Know Things Don't Always Go As Plan?

[Narvanna21]

Hi everyone, I am 18 years old and i'll be turning 19 this 21st. I'm the type of person that is always inside my own head, I tend to overthink everything and question every possibility. You can say that i'm a daydreamer. I always dream big but worry about things not working out. I can see myself in four years finishing University and going to Canada for a master's degree. I just want to know what goal I should set for myself and how I can maintain on this track to success, not getting distracted by the people around me. What habit should I be developing, the mindset, and how to keep pushing when you know that life can be a bitch sometime.

 

I'm still a newbie at Self-actualizing, Thank you :)

 

 

[cetus]

@Narvanna21 Happy-early-Birthday! Know what you really want.  look at it this way, do what makes you happy. It's your life. You are the one who has to live it. Do something that you have a passion for and it will come easy. That's not to say that there won't be challenges. That isn't saying there won't be deviations along the path. That too is all part of the learning process of life. So what, you take a slight detour. Simply return to your path again and proceed on. How could you fail? You can manifest anything you want. That is what life is here for. Never forget that.

[Narvanna21]

@cetus56 The reason that I'm anxious about taking detour is because in high school I had made friends that are not so decent. We would sneak around campus to smoke and skip classes, I almost had to repeat 12 grade. I'm not blaming them for the event that happen to me, but let's just say that high school could have been better. I did all of this without thinking everything through and I regret wasting 4 years fooling around. So now i'm just contemplating.. Those friends are all gone now, I watch Leo video on toxic people and I stood up to them for once.. before it was just doing things because everyone was doing it. Sorry i'm exploding a little. Yeah, manifest the Calvin Klein model with in me. one day, one day. Thank you for the reply :)

[cetus]

@Narvanna21 I'm sure you realize now that's all a self created detour. There is still something to learn from it though. Something about yourself more than the outside world. It sound like you got yourself back on track again without too much of a personal price to pay.  Good for you!