Should I date or sleep with people I'm not attracted to?

[Shaun]

Recently I have been getting messages from women online who either want sex or dating. Problem is that I feel no attraction to them whatsoever. Should I just overlook this and just do it anyway? 

[Fishy]

Don't get involved if you are not interested. 

[Natasha]

@Shaun I would go out at least once to see what they look like in person and personality-wise. You might change your mind once you meet and talk to them in person. You don't have to ask them out again if you didn't like them. 

[pluto]

Never have sex with anyone you feel no connection to. Sex fuses your energies together and it takes months to completely rid yourselves of their energy. You want to make sure the person you are making love to is focused on the same things you are in life and of a similar frequency in consciousness.

Many people don't notice this but as you become more aware and sensitive you will notice eventually how impactful it can be.

[hamedsf]

Judging by their profile you feel no attraction to?

[Rilles]

Lol, cant believe you would even ask this, are your own feelings not relevant?

[Michael569]

I would never sleep with a random woman who messaged me online. Because:

1. It can be a scam or autobot message. Ever got one of those? "There are 20 women in your area who are dying to meet you"  

2. You don't know how many guys have "been there". You may be risking a serious STD with these women and I wouldn't rely on condom as 100% protection

3. its shallow and cheap and fucks up your perception of true deep relationship and sexual connection. 

[Harikrishnan]

5 hours ago, pluto said:

Never have sex with anyone you feel no connection to. Sex fuses your energies together and it takes months to completely rid yourselves of their energy. You want to make sure the person you are making love to is focused on the same things you are in life and of a similar frequency in consciousness.

Many people don't notice this but as you become more aware and sensitive you will notice eventually how impactful it can be.

OMG. I had one of the greatest realization. I once had sex with a prostitute and there was like 3 months of torture after that. And then two month later i found out Leo in Yt.

[Shaun]

Advice taken, thanks. I will steer clear of them.

[Psyche_92]

Only if you want to be fake, and lie to yourself and to the other person simultaneously.

Edited July 23, 2019 by Psyche_92

[Identity]

10 hours ago, pluto said:

Never have sex with anyone you feel no connection to. Sex fuses your energies together and it takes months to completely rid yourselves of their energy. You want to make sure the person you are making love to is focused on the same things you are in life and of a similar frequency in consciousness.

Many people don't notice this but as you become more aware and sensitive you will notice eventually how impactful it can be.

Interesting. I have started to notice indeed how big of an impact it can have. Thanks for the post, made a lot of sense to me. ??

[ds300]

short answer no

[JustThinkingAloud]

Once you really want it and get fed up with being rejected, you’ll learn to lower your expectations. Also, it’s much easier to get attracted to someone when you love who they are. Love also makes sex ten times better as you adding more emotions and sensations. So attraction is not just about looks, it’s also about connection. It’s very hard to know who someone really is or how attractive they are just from a photo.

[assx95]

@Keyhole

On 7/24/2019 at 5:44 AM, Keyhole said:

Yeah that sounds like a great idea, you should do it.

lol.