Never close your heart

[Shin]

 

If there is one thing I had struggle with pretty much all my life,
It was definitely this.

Closing your heart and your soul everytime something happens that hurts you,
Is actually how suffering is created and sustained.

If you really want to break free, do the exact opposite
If something hurts you, open your heart even more, and take it all in, feel everything, and don't stop to love.

 

Love is not necessarily what your culture or what your guru tells you,
Love is about accepting and understanding other beings fully.
It doesn't have to be strong or crazy, it can be peaceful and silent too.

I'm not only talking about extreme situations,
I'm talking about everything that happens in your life, even the most mundane things.

There is no reason to close your heart.
You know what you really fear when you do this ?

You fear to love

You don't fear to be hurt, you fear the opposite

 

You won't lose control by doing this,
There never was any control about this in the first place.
The more you try to control how you feel, the more pain and misery you will create.

There is only one solution,

To completely be naked to everything that happens to you
 

Being internally vulnerable, to not try anything to stop how you feel
It has nothing to do with being passive and a doormat externally, you got to do what you got to do there

But first you let yourself be vulnerable, you have to be willing to feel the pain and suffering first.
Then you will be able to take actions that benefits everyone, and not just your own selfish agenda.

Even if you could make everything goes your way, it wouldn't matter,
Because that comes from the fear to be vulnerable and to love in the first place.


The less control you try to have over your life, and the more you allow to feel everything inside you

The happiest and free you will be.

It's the only way to love consistently and completely open your heart

If you'd completely open your heart

You'd not be able to cherry pick what is good or bad anymore.
You'd not be able to love this person and hate this person
You'd not be able to refuse to help anyone.

You'd be completely engulfed in love
You'd be love itself

 

 

 

 

Edited July 9, 2019 by Shin

[SoonHei]

lovely share. thank you 

xoxo

Love is the Answer indeed.

 

"My Lord Loves the One whose heart is filled with Love & Passion."

[Shin]

[Natasha]

@Shin Beautiful deep insights. Thanks for sharing your heart with us

[Truth Addict]

Of course ?

Heart is ego-death.

[DrewNows]

excellent Shin ?

 yeah me and love go way back. It’s hard to accept something that’s constantly changing, it’s hard to let go of comfort, expectation, anticipation (me), and embrass fear, pain, and regret but I guess love is the only way 

8 hours ago, Shin said:

To completely be naked to everything that happens to you

My favorite line (sure man I’ll be naked with ya ) 

Also you inspired me to create this video, it’s rather boring so DONT WATCH! (I think so anyway) 

I forgot to expand on some points I was making about embracing change, how we don’t share the same path as anyone and grow in different areas at different times unique to our experience so opening the heart is about accepting the unknown 

Edited July 9, 2019 by DrewNows

[Shin]

28 minutes ago, DrewNows said:

excellent Shin ?

 yeah me and love go way back. It’s hard to accept something that’s constantly changing, it’s hard to let go of comfort, expectation, anticipation (me), and embrass fear, pain, and regret but I guess love is the only way 

My favorite line (sure man I’ll be naked with ya ) 

Also you inspired me to create this video, it’s rather boring so DONT WATCH! (I think so anyway) 

 

You wouldn't post it if you wouldn't want us to watch it ?

I know how women works, you can't fool me ??

It is good, stop putting yourself down ?

[Tai]

Beautifully said! Thank you for your words 

Edited July 10, 2019 by Tai
Typo

[DrewNows]

@Shin idk if maybe you’re calling me a woman ? but thanks for the compliment on video.

I played your journal card “DO NOT READ” ?

[Shin]

[Charlotte]

❤️♥️

[zeroISinfinity]

Wow. ❤️❤️❤️

That's it, melted. ???

[Shin]

 

If you had a glimpse of your true nature

You will have this in your mind until you merge with it

?

 

[abrakamowse]

Great post @Shin  !!!

[Shin]

Edited July 13, 2019 by Shin