Hypergamy

[themovement]

8 hours ago, kev014 said:

There are different levels of consciousness within both men and women. Hypergamy is very real and correct in some regards, and in others it is totally false. You are basically trying to take the approach 'what can I do for this not to be real?' You're trying to use your mind, consciousness, whatever you want to call it for reality to be different than how it actually is. Why not focus your efforts on actually answering the question DIRECTLY for yourself what is hypergamy, is it reality, what makes a man attractive, what do I value in a woman, etc. rather than mentally fighting with a theory you've heard proposed online. If hypergamy is true or not is irrelevant, do you know who you are as a man? Do you know how a woman fits in to your reality and what value/lifestyle you can offer her? These appear to be more practical questions for you to be asking yourself.

Why do I keep getting burned then if hypergamy isn't true and people who have superior genetics get everything they want. Im scared spirituality is a cop out for others that do not do well in the dominance hierarchy. but its not like i have a choice so I may as well give this a try. I did do  2000UG LSD trip but i melted away it felt, left my fried but isn't it all a hallucination in the brain?

[noselfnofun]

10 hours ago, Emerald said:

Perhaps are you doing this to women for their looks, and then the judgments you make toward them looks-wise come back to bite bite you because you then start thinking in an objectifying way about yourself in terms of status and questioning which men deserve and don't deserve an attractive woman as a signifier of their worth?

This is really the reason why so many men are freaking about hypergamy. They engage in hypergamy with women for their looks and then project that every woman on the planet is doing it to them for their money and status, when it's really just a small minority of women who are like that.

The solution is to integrate your anima and to be a real person and see women as real people.

 

 

 

Absolutely spot on, its such double standards its unreal.

[noselfnofun]

1 hour ago, themovement said:

Why do I keep getting burned then if hypergamy isn't true and people who have superior genetics get everything they want. Im scared spirituality is a cop out for others that do not do well in the dominance hierarchy. but its not like i have a choice so I may as well give this a try. I did do  2000UG LSD trip but i melted away it felt, left my fried but isn't it all a hallucination in the brain?

Time to end the bullshit once and for all, here  two disabled men with two great women, so this ends the debate you can't attract high quality women if you are "genetically inferior" What do these two guys have in common? They are internally fulfilled and have a deep appreciation for just being alive. Time to get to work end of discussion, case is now closed!

 

 

[flowboy]

@noselfnofun

[themovement]

4 hours ago, noselfnofun said:

Time to end the bullshit once and for all, here  two disabled men with two great women, so this ends the debate you can't attract high quality women if you are "genetically inferior" What do these two guys have in common? They are internally fulfilled and have a deep appreciation for just being alive. Time to get to work end of discussion, case is now closed!

 

 

As much as it pisses me off  I have to admit I have no answer for that I guess I have no excuses then.

[Shadowraix]

@themovement Half-truths run deep here. Sure, there are a lot of women, a lot of people who think only of the things you mention. All those guys will only pick those kind of girls up. And if they are only interested in those kind of girls, they won't have a shot at the higher consciousness women because they will see their bullshit a mile away.

Why are you picking women who's concerns associate with hypergamy? How often do you do the same judgments on women you criticize women for?

Hypergamy is about using someone else to serve the ego. After all our primary directive we start out with is serving egoic desires. Some are more egotistical than others.

You've been hurt and burned so many times you refuse to believe anyone could transcend such primitive states. This belief seems to originate from pain and you use hypergamy as a means of making yourself feel better.

 

[Aeris]

On 01/07/2019 at 2:42 PM, Preetom said:

Once a cuck, always a cuck

 

you talking from true experience ?

[Preetom]

10 hours ago, Aeris said:

you talking from true experience ?

There is no such thing as a true experience as opposed to a false experience.

I would be lying whether I say yes or no ?

[Shin]

On 03/07/2019 at 1:24 PM, noselfnofun said:

Time to end the bullshit once and for all, here  two disabled men with two great women, so this ends the debate you can't attract high quality women if you are "genetically inferior" What do these two guys have in common? They are internally fulfilled and have a deep appreciation for just being alive. Time to get to work end of discussion, case is now closed!

 

 

There is even one that has no legs or arms, and his wife could be the most famous pornstar ever.

That's how sexy she is ?

[noselfnofun]

@Shin Ah cool, could u post I've been on a anti red and black pill mission  recently lol

[theking00]

For me getting a girlfriend is impossible. I have been rejected so many times  I  am just not good enough. 

Edited July 5, 2019 by theking00

[Shin]

26 minutes ago, theking00 said:

For me getting a girlfriend is impossible. I have been rejected so many times  I  am just not good enough. 

Try harder, I've been rejected for 27 years lol

[theking00]

24 minutes ago, Shin said:

Try harder, I've been rejected for 27 years lol

I don't know.  I am turning 28 soon and my Time  is running out. 

[Shadowraix]

9 hours ago, theking00 said:

For me getting a girlfriend is impossible. I have been rejected so many times  I  am just not good enough. 

It's not a matter of can and can't, it is a matter of which woman at which time. 

[Shin]

12 hours ago, theking00 said:

I don't know.  I am turning 28 soon and my Time  is running out. 

You're not even 30, you have at least 40 years in front of you.

[Ibn Sina]

I don't believe in Hypergamy, because of the simple reason that nature creates men and women in equal numbers.

Hypergamy assumes that all women marry men who are  higher in their status in terms of wealth and money.

The reality is what you get depends on who you are, or your quality.

If you are a high quality man , you will attract a high quality woman and vice versa.

Hypergamy assumes that even low quality women attract high quality men, but that is impossible because  I can't see how the 'high quality girlfriend' of the high quality man would share her boyfriend, even if the boyfriend would be happy to have the low quality woman. 

I have read about many cases where billionaires got divorced because of the above scenario.

'The bell curve distribution' works in all aspects of nature whether it be wealth of men or beauty of women.

If even low quality women attract high quality men, then what will the really attractive model looking  women get? Also High quality men? Are men in the upper strata more than those in the lower strata?  
The math doesn't work.

Unless the wealthy men practice polygamy, many women get married to the same man, or live their life as their mistresses (I don't think women like that) 

which looking at Bill Gates and many rich people in the western world, I don't think is the case. 

I have seen men unable to get a girlfriend, but I have also seen many women who no guy would marry, and hence she had stay unmarried. At least women many times do accept genetically inferior men, so it's even harsher for women if they don't have the attractive genetics.

There is only 1 inequality in nature,

women tend to get more attention when they are young, because men desire younger women.

But men being old doesn't necessarily decrease their attractiveness. Women do accept men older men if he can provide, but the opposite , in most cases isn't true. 

If you are an average guy then you will get an average girl.

The only time it is very difficult to get yourself a girlfriend is when you have  qualities so below or so high that (looking at the bell curve) it gets difficult to find girls who is also at your level. 

Edited July 6, 2019 by Ibn Sina

[SFRL]

Does hypergamy have a very ugly grin when left unchecked? Yes. 

But the part missing in these discussions is that women are not just like men+hypergamy. 

Women are hypergamous. But they also possess many great qualities unique to them that men don't have.